From ‘Hi’ to Booty Call: 5 Tips on How to Get a Booty Call

Everyone wants physical intimacy, but not everyone wants a romantic relationship.

In this article, I’ll tell you how you can get casual sex while staying respectful.

So if you’re on online dating apps and looking for booty calls, you’re in the right place.

In this article:

• What is a booty call?
• What makes a booty call different from a one night stand?
• How to get a booty call in 5 steps
• Step 1: Find the right person
• Step 2: Gain their interest
• Step 3: Earn their trust
• Step 4: Create desire
• Step 5:  Look for clear signs of interest
• Booty Call Do’s and Don’ts
• Booty Call – Final Thoughts

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What is a booty call?

A ‘booty call’ is an invitation to meet up, either through a phone call or text message, intending to have sex.

That’s why a booty call meet-up doesn’t involve a stroll through the park or dinner and a movie. This defeats the purpose of the arrangement.

The term ‘booty’ also implies that both parties understand that their relationship is largely sexual rather than emotional or romantic.

In short, a booty call is an invitation to have sex with no strings attached.

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What makes a booty call different from a one night stand?

Although both are casual at their core, the people involved in a booty call already share at least a bit of history.

While a one night stand typically refers to a sexual encounter between two people who just met.

Plus, a one night stand is a one-off occurrence. Whereas booty calls can happen multiple times with the same person. This means you can develop a level of familiarity with your booty call partner and have better sex than you would with a one-night stand.

In short, a booty call lets you experience drama-free sex with the same person.

And for those of you looking for more one night stands instead (and not the IKEA kind), check out my video below.

• 11 Texts For After A One Night Stand 🔥

How to get a booty call in 5 steps

Step 1: Find the right person

Here’s how you exponentially increase your odds of setting up booty calls…

Attract the right person.

This process already starts long before your first swipe. If you want to find someone who’s open to be your booty call, you need to (subtly) communicate that with your profile.

The problem is that most guys have no clue what their profile is saying about them. They just upload their favorite pictures, slap on a quick bio, and start matching.

But now you have no clue what type of person is attracted to your profile. And if the people you end up chatting with are looking for something different than you, your matches are useless.

What’s the point of having a hundred matches if none of them want booty calls?

So if this is what you’re after, then you need to look for someone who can separate sex from love and intimacy.

Or at minimum someone who is not looking for a serious relationship.

If you want more info on filtering for the right girls, check out this guide where I go in-depth on filtering:

• How to Hook Up on Tinder: A TextGod Guide (10 Steps)

Step 2: Gain their interest

You need to get someone’s attention if you want them for a potential booty call.

And how do you do that?

By standing out.

Just remember to stand out from the rest in a positive way. Below are a few ways to do exactly that.

Be flirty

Flirting is the difference between guys who get booty calls and guys who don’t.

There are many different ways to flirt. Such as giving compliments, sexual innuendos, and being suggestive with your language.

But my all-time favorite is still teasing. In other words: playfully breaking the connection.

Teasing is good to do for lots of reasons. But the main reason it’s a great tool for seduction is that it shows that you can playfully push her away. Which suggests that she doesn’t have you yet.

And being a bit of a challenge is wildly attractive.

There are an infinite amount of ways to tease, but here are a few examples so you get the idea.

Suppose she says she likes a certain food.

Or:

Let’s say she sends you a voice note.

That’s where she starts smiling at her phone when she’s texting you.

Playfully express self-love

Would you be able to guess the #1 trait women look for in a potential Booty Call?

It’s not being funny, tall, handsome, or rich, although yes, these things CAN help.

It’s confidence.

Any time a girl lists attractive qualities they like in someone, confidence is top of the list. Being confident over text is all about owning what you say and sticking to it. It’s about being bold and not afraid to challenge her a little.

So try loving yourself a little (or a lot) more.

Like in these texts.

• “Yikes, you’re like the girl version of me. Would I date myself? Probably.”
• “Awww.. it’s cute to see how hard you’re trying ;).”
• “Boy am I funny.”
• “Here’s my number. Just remember to save it as “King [Your name], handsomest man alive.”

Be curious, not bought in

This is one of the biggest turns off for a woman:

When you like her too fast without a good reason.

If you want her from the word go it communicates that you don’t care about anything besides her looks. And that you don’t have healthy standards.

I know what you’re thinking, you’re looking for a booty call, so don’t need deep conversations and chemistry.

But I’d argue that’s not entirely true.

Even if you’ll be spending most of your time in the bedroom, it definitely matters if your bed partner isn’t toxic.

You don’t want to invite crazy into your life. And neither does she.

And that’s all you need to look out for.

Here are a few questions to get to know her a bit more.

• “Ok [Her Name], serious question before we meet up…what are your top 2 favorite desserts?”
• “What top item is on your bucket list?”
• “Just spent Sunday afternoon baby sitting my cousin. So cuuute. What were you up to?”

Step 3: Earn their trust

It doesn’t matter how attractive someone thinks you are. Without trust, the odds of you arranging a booty call is tiny.

That’s why you want to build comfort. Here’s how.

Use ‘we’ and ‘us’

Use phrases that suggest you’re on the same side.

Comradery makes for a better connection. And that’s important, even for booty calls. Because without safety, there’s no meeting up.

That’s why I suggest you create togetherness.

How? Simple. Create texts that use ‘we’ or ‘us’ in them. Which makes it seem like the two of you are already on the same team.

• “You haven’t ever seen Star Wars? We should definitely check it out one time. As long as you promise not to be too handsy.”
• “Tinder definitely wants us together in the same room right now. I read it in their fine print.”

Share a little about yourself

Here’s what  every friend with benefits wants, that few guys realize:

She wants to know you a little.

She doesn’t want to hear your full life story, but a few small details can make you a much more relatable and trustworthy person. And that’s the type of person she wants.

The more she knows about you, the more comfortable she’ll be hooking up with you.

Sharing things like your biggest irrational fear, who your third grade cartoon crush was, and why you wear a sleep mask to bed all help create connection.

It’s not a bad idea to ask good questions either. Because she’ll probably bounce that question right back at you, allowing you to talk about yourself.

• 149 Best Tinder questions for fun & flirty conversations

Step 4: Create desire

If you don’t create desire, there won’t be a spark and you’ll end up in the friendzone.

So here come the most tasteful tips to seduce someone. Do it right and you’ll end up as their lover.

Use the language of desire

Here’s how you can instantly make someone see you as more than friends.

Use erotic language.

Language is a powerful tool. Especially when you’re flirting and making the conversation more and more sexual.

But be careful to start slowly. Nobody wants a weenie picture or sexually expressive language in the first few messages. Only once they like you a bit already is it smart to show you’re clearly attracted to them.

So start with moderately suggestive language instead.

• “Quit flirting with me at work, it’s starting to rile me up too much.”
• “Honestly, I’m getting a bit aroused thinking about the pasta I’m making tonight.”
• “You look stunning in the picture with the black dress. My inner monologue is screaming “BEHAVE! BEHAVE!”

Save the more suggestive texts for when you know each other better.

Stay unpredictable

Here’s how to make your online matches want more of you.

Always mix things up.

What makes dating so exciting is the mystery. We don’t know if we’ll get together, what they’d like to be with, or what they look like without their clothes. It’s the unknown that makes everything so intensely interesting.

That’s why you don’t want to turn them off by being predictable. It makes them think they already know you. And that puts an end to most of the fun.

Always try to stay a little mysterious.

IMPORTANT: This doesn’t mean responding to texts 3 days later, or constantly bringing up random subjects

It simply means adding enough variety that you don’t become predictable.

What does that look like in practice?

• Send different kinds of texts. Use GIFs, send voice notes, play around with emojis, drop a live location, make a photo of what you’re doing.
• Respond at different times. Don’t overthink this, just be careful not to consistently respond within the same time or hour of day.
• Vary the emotions behind your messages. Mix up between joking around, flirting, showing interest, sharing, and so on.

Give her room to invest

The most common way to turn someone off is to smother them with interest and texts.

After all, if you’re always curious and attentive while they’re being distant, what does that say about you? That you don’t care about how they treat you.

Ick. Nobody wants to date a pushover.

If you want more booty calls, you want to show you have standards. And one of the best ways to do that is by giving them space.

After you’ve shown you’re playful and fun, it’s time to slow down and give them room to invest.

Give them the chance to put in more effort and see what happens.

If they seize this opportunity, you know they’re interested. Plus, by putting in more of their energy in the conversation, they’ll like you more.

So it’s win/win.

Step 5:  Look for clear signs of interest

How do you know when someone’s ready to move things forward? Well, keep your eyes open for these signs.

Get their number

You need to exchange numbers or no booty call will happen.

Once you’ve texted and built some rapport, you must exchange numbers.

You can’t stay on dating apps forever. Keeping things in the digital realm will eventually destroy all their interest in you.

Whereas exchanging numbers is exciting because it moves things a step closer to the date..

So once you’ve exchanged a bunch of texts and they’re enjoying their chat with you, swap digits.

Are they not ready? Then you probably need to strengthen your connection some more.

Do be sure to keep the vibes going once you have their number. See my next video for more details.

How to Text a Girl After Getting Her Number

Be honest about your intentions

Here’s the secret to getting lots of booty calls.

Be honest about what you’re after.

What most often goes wrong when setting up a booty call, is deception. Guys will typically feign interest and suggest they’re looking for something long-term. Even though they just want to hook up.

A cruel thing to do.

If you want booty calls, then let it be known! Not only will you find out if your dating goals align, but your honesty is also attractive.

It shows courage, and courage is sexy.

So if you ever get asked the question, “What are you looking for?”

I suggest you reply something like, “I’m looking for someone to have a good time with and keep it casual. How about you?”

Initiate the booty call

How do you actually have the ‘Booty Call’ part?

Easy. Invite them over to your place (or go to theirs).

• “Can you come over Thursday night? I could really use that backrub ;)”
• “I’m thinking we watch Love Island and order sushi tonight. Down?”
• “I want to see you tonight.”
• “Are you free Friday? I want to try some new things with you.”
• “Let’s get together on Monday? Start the week off with a bang.”

It’s that simple.

Also, remember to follow these hookup rules in my video below.

• Hook Up Etiquette – 5 Rules To Swear By

Booty Call Do’s and Don’ts

Booty calls are all about keeping things strictly sexual.

So here are some general Do’s and Don’ts for handling these situations.

• Respect their answer. Sometimes they might reject the booty call. That’s totally fair.
• Don’t do date activities. Meet at home.
• Don’t give gifts. It’s too romantic for such a superficial arrangement.
• Don’t spend the night together. Call a cab and make sure they can safely get home.
• Use protection. STDs are bad, mmm’kay?
• Don’t casually text each other. Some chatting is fine, of course. But don’t make a habit of getting too chummy, it only creates confusion about your intentions.
• Don’t meet up more than twice a week. You don’t want to get too close and catch feelings.
• Don’t get jealous. If the person you’re seeing is also booty calling someone else, that’s their right. I’d recommend not to ask about their sex life either.
• Mention when you develop feelings. You’re not in control of what your body does. Communicate with each other if feelings change so you can both deal with it. Be ready to cut them out of your life if they don’t feel the same about you, and vice versa.
• Talk if you think they might be catching feelings for you. Even if it’s a non-committal relationship, it’s still important to take care of each other’s most important needs.

And most importantly, create rules with them that match your own feelings and expectations.

Booty Call – Final Thoughts

When both people are on the same page, booty calls are a beautiful thing. Sex and intimacy are needs we all have, and sometimes we’re not in the right space to get tangled up romantically.

But do note that not everyone can easily separate sex and feelings. We’re not in charge of such things. Some people are better at staying detached than others.

So falling in love and getting your heart broken is always a risk. And since you’re not exclusive, you can both potentially grow jealous and clingy.

Overall, booty calls are great if you’re looking for something really casual, but it’s not for everyone.

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