You’re on Bumble and want to make a good first impression.
And although women on Bumble text first, it doesn’t always easily lead to fun conversation.
That’s why you’ll get 23 of the best Bumble pick up lines for guys that will make her excited to talk to you.
- #1-10: Copy my best Bumble pick up lines
- #11-13: Be ready for Bumble-approved openers
- #14: Demand that she puts in some work
- #15: Match her level of investment
- #16-17: Come up with a personal opener
- #18: Make her so curious she can’t resist
- #19: Give her a hand with your bio
- #20-21: Inspire her to talk to you about your passions
- #22: Clever Bumble pick up lines
- #23: Do as the pros do
Important: Quickly letting you know I found the best opener EVER. Its psychologically irresistible to ignore. I made a video explaining how to use it and it's 'clickbait-principle' with screenshot examples. Check it out here.
By the end of the article, you’ll never wonder how to start your Bumble conversation again.
#1-10: Copy my best Bumble pick up lines
- [If she has a pet] Wow you look super cute. And your human is pretty decent too 😉
- If I were a T-rex, I’d be holding you in my arms crying because I couldn’t resist tasting your delicious human flesh and biting you
- [When she’s nearby] Holy F, you’re close. Wait, I’m going to hang out of the window and mimic the mating call of a pregnant golden eagle. Can you hear me?
- [Demands you have the 2 truths and 1 lie prompt] Hey Sarah, let’s play a game. Find the lie in my profile and win a prize
- I don’t usually give compliments right away after meeting someone, but you have excellent taste in men. How did you find out I had a complete Beanie Baby collection?
- Sunday priorities: exercise, sleep, or aggressive mimosas?
- Would you rather be a squirrel in the sea or a crab in the woods?
- What are your favorite three movies? Think about it carefully. Because I will be silently judging you 😉
- What’s something that you ALWAYS have in your fridge or pantry?
- Louise, quick yet important question. You’re having your portrait painted, what’s your backdrop?
#11-13: Be ready for Bumble-approved openers
Just like lots of men on traditional dating apps, women on Bumble find it difficult to start the conversation. And will simply pass the turn to you.
That demands a special kind of response. More on that soon. Some, however, will at least put in a little more effort.
They will pick a Bumble-approved opener.
In case you’re out of the loop, Bumble can recognize when a girl is about to send a generic icebreaker. And offer her an alternative.
I know that it feels a little sad that she’s not coming up with her own lines. But it has a great advantage!
If you’re aware of Bumble’s suggestions, then you’ll be able to come up with the perfect response for each suggestion!
Like so.
Don’t you love how humble she is? She doesn’t even try to hide that she copy-pasted a Bumble pick up line. Love it.
Now, for another easy response to the auto-suggestions.
That’s why I never feel bad when I get dumped. The interwebs always reminds me of all the hot singles in my area. #abundance
Once you’re familiar with all of Bumble’s pre-made openers, you can get a little creative.
Like by incorporating her name into your reply.
#14: Demand that she puts in some work
Some girls won’t even try to break the ice. Instead, they’ll demand that you hit them with a pick up line.
Understandable.
Our culture large dictates that men should take the first move. But that doesn’t mean that she shouldn’t put in a little effort!
And that’s exactly what I want you to show her.
Playfully demand that she puts in a little bit of effort.
Don’t worry. Women find it attractive if you have a spine, as long as you don’t seem douchey.
Here’s an example of a conversation that rides the line between self-love and self-importance.
It needs to be said: this isn’t my own conversation. But it still does a decent job of showing her that you want to be treated in a certain way.
#15: Match her level of investment
Here’s an alternative to the classic pick up line that’s even easier to come up with.
*grabs phone and checks Bumble conversations*
Aha!
Even though my bio gives her plenty of inspiration to send a fun first text, she opens with the tried and tested:
Rather than putting in effort coming up with a pick up line, I put in the minimal amount of effort.
A gif.
But there’s just one problem here.
If you hit her back with a gif, you may not always get a reply back. And if you do, it’s likely to be incredibly low effort too.
So putting the ball in her court again might not be your best move.
I’ll give you an alternative in the next tip.
#16-17: Come up with a personal opener
Here’s something that blows the minds of most men:
Even if she starts the conversation with a boring ‘hi’, you can still make it work!
How?
My favorite is what I call the personalized opener.
You check out her profile for anything that stands out to you and turn it into an original and playful first text.
Suppose this is the profile of your newest Bumble match.
A cute girl taking care of a rhino. How sweet is that?
And when she sends you the first text, you receive this in your inbox:
Rather than screaming from frustration, you decide to make it work and send her a personalized opener.
Summer is the name of a baby rhino she cared for
Bang bang!
Look, I know you aren’t always feeling creative enough for something like this. No problem. I’ve got just what you need in the next tip.
#18: Make her so curious she can’t resist
I have a text for you that you can ALWAYS use, and it gets more responses than any other opener on this planet.
I know.
It sounds too good to be true.
But there is one line that comes closer to perfection than anything else out there.
And it’s my very own Clickbait Opener.
Curious to see how it works?
Here, have a look at this example where I’m using it on Tinder:
Ah crap, there’s black bars over my Clickbait Opener!
Luckily for you, you can get instant free access to my secret video. I’ll tell you exactly how the opener works, when to use it, how to use it, what to follow up with, and so on.
On top of that you get 7 screenshot examples.
You can use it as a Bumble pickup line, a Tinder opener, a PoF icebreaker, …
Enjoy!
#19: Give her a hand with your bio
Follow the steps in this tip and you’ll get:
- More matches
- Less Bumble girls hitting you up with a boring ‘hi’
- More interesting conversations
The trick to getting all of the above is simple:
Add a call to action to your Bumble bio.
Here’s an example to show you what I mean:
Download my free clickbait opener HERE. Click this link. There, that was a CTA.
But what would that look like on a dating app like Bumble?
A client of mine found a call to action style bio on the internet and instantly put it to use.
Ask me about my job as a mammoth hunter/tracker.
Here’s the type of reactions he’d get all day long.
Women love it when you have a bio like this because it makes sending you the first text super easy. And if your bio is a little mysterious, she’ll like it even more because she doesn’t know what so expect.
Exciting!
#20-21: Inspire her to talk to you about your passions
Here’s how you get less heys and hellos, and more of your favorite kind of replies.
Shamelessly steal my Bumble bio for guys.
Even better would be to slightly adjust it, and make it your own.
This way you can add some personality. Plus, now you’ll be the only person in the world with this bio.
#22: Clever Bumble pick up lines
It’s no secret that the witty guy will always win over more hearts than the non-witty guy.
But being witty isn’t something you learn overnight.
It takes some practice. And a lot of examples.
And it’s those examples that I got for you in the next video.
Yeh, yeh, I know it’s a Tinder video, not a Bumble video.
But guess what? That doesn’t change ANYTHING.
Witty texts over Bumble are just like witty texts on Bumble.
If you’ve checked the video and you also want some copy pastable stuff…
…then the next tip is up your ass alley.
#23: Do as the pros do
My team and I have used the next lines for years with great success.
Lines about:
- The best (non-needy) way to ask a cutie out
- How to text a girl you’ve just met
- 3 Fun ways to keep the conversation going
- A line to get her number straight from Instagram
- Some more of that goodgood
And now I’m sharing them with you.
You can download my 10 Text examples that get fun reactions from girls here.
Enjoy!
Blessings,
Louis Farfields
And don't forget your download below ;)
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