You like someone. Awesome…
…but what are the text signs a girl likes you?
And if you’re a girl, don’t worry. Men show these same signs.
If you want to know if someone likes you, just read this article and you’ll have your answer.
- 1. She texts back quickly
- 2. She uses a lot of emojis
- 3. She hints at being together
- 4. She shows emotion
- 5. She double texts you
- 6. She sends a lot of text
- 7. She sends you photos
- 8. She sends you selfies
- 9. She texts you late at night
- 10. She changes her profile picture
- 11. She invests a lot
- 12. She makes words longer
- 13. She laughs at everything you say
- 14: She initiates contact
- 15. She teases you
- 16. She gives you a nickname
- 17. She likes your posts on Instagram
- 18. Example screenshot (Test your knowledge!)
- 19. She brings up deep topics
- 20. She texts you when you come online
1. She texts back quickly
If a girl texts back quickly, she likes talking to you.
It makes sense right, the faster she replies to you, the faster she hears from you again.
Ideally, you and her can text back and forth in real-time.
Let’s use the screenshot from one of my mentees as an example.
It only takes her seconds to reply. A good sign.
2. She uses a lot of emojis
Emojis add extra expression to her texts.
They are an easy way for her to show how she feels.
If she doesn’t like you, she won’t go to the trouble of adding emojis to her texts.
Look at the screenshot example. Do you see how the texts would be less flirty without the emojis?
3. She hints at being together
If you see her doing this in your conversation… she likes you!
Any texts that paint a picture of the two of you together, are a good sign.
In the screenshot example below, the girl is trying so hard to belong.
My student was afraid he was being friendzoned here:
Wrong. She’s simply trying to be a part of his life.
Which becomes extra clear in her next text.
4. She shows emotion
The more emotions she shows while texting you, the better.
Even if they aren’t all good emotions. But that’s another story.
Someone who has no interest in you, will keep responses short and shallow.
Only around people that she likes, will she open up more.
If she shows your her feelings, she feels safe around you and wants to connect more deeply.
Do you usually get these shorter, more shallow texts from girls? Chances are you are not emotionally stimulating her. Making it very hard for her to like you. Try sending her one of my 10 Texts That Always Work so spice up your convo. They are a free gift for our readers.
5. She double texts you
Quick question, how often have you received a text like this:
Oh, you haven’t?
No worries, no one has.
It’s just too risky for girls to put themselves out there like this. Vulnerable to getting their feelings hurt when you reject them.
So instead, they try to show interest in more subtle ways.
One way girls will do this is by double texting.
A double text is when someone sends you a message, while the last text already came from her side.
Just like in this screenshot example:
Honestly, do you think she cares what airline he flies with?
She doesn’t. She just wants to talk to the guy.
6. She sends a lot of text
Another clear sign is the VOLUME of text she sends you.
The girl who double-texted in the last tip, also texts A LOT.
We also see a sign that we already saw earlier. Emojis.
7. She sends you photos
Photos are often more personal than words.
Did it show what she was eating? Was she shopping and asking for advice? Did she just show herself?
All of them have a different meaning, but all of them are good news.
A picture is worth a thousand words, right?
Bonus points if you didn’t ask for a photo, she just sent it. A clear text sign a girl likes you.
Even better is when the photo shows herself. More on that in the next sign.
8. She sends you selfies
One of the clearest signs that a girl is into you.
Whether it’s a selfie or a photo someone else took, if it clearly shows GER, that’s a good sign.
A selfie past midnight. Love is in the air.
A selfie shows more interest than other photos.
Because when someone shows themself to you, the sub-communication is this:
9. She texts you late at night
Just how clear this sign is, depends on the amount of alcohol the other person has in their system.
The true meaning of drunk texts… that’s a topic for another time. But one thing’s for sure: Getting late-night texts, is a good thing.
What is she doing late at night? She’s either with friends or she’s alone at home, maybe in bed.
If she’s alone and thinking of you: great!
If she’s with friends and thinking of you: also great!
10. She changes her profile picture
I just told you that getting unsolicited photos is good news.
It shows so much interest. And some girls know this.
They also know that showing too much interest can scare guys off.
But they want you to see their newest super hot and cute photo because they want to impress you.
So what do they do?
Almost any texting app allows you to set a profile photo. If a girl changes her profile photo while talking to you… that’s a text sign she likes you.
(Unless they are talking to their crush while also talking to you, and they change it for them, and not for you.)
(Sorry, just messing with you.)
Here’s an example of me using this same trick:
Not only can you use this to make her see your hot new pic without having to send it to her…
…you can also change your profile picture in hopes of her restarting the conversation with you. Or just to create passive attraction to everyone on your texting app.
Sneaky but effective.
11. She invests a lot
It’s pretty obvious, but some men don’t realize it.
When someone sends you super long texts, then they are interested in you. If they repeatedly do this, and you have already known each other quite long, then she might even be in love.
The more texts she blasts your way, the more she’s into you.
Remember, in the end, it’s all about the amount of time, energy, and effort someone invests in you.
Here’s an example of a woman on Tinder investing too much in me:
My Tinder match is onto something.
The huge amount of time she invested in typing that thesis, did scare me off.
Just like your long texts can scare off women.
Here’s what I thought of this woman, and what women will think of you when you bombard them with your essay:
“Why would this person take the time and effort to tell me all this? Why are they so invested in this conversation already? Maybe they have no one to talk to?”
12. She makes words longer
We already agreed that more is better when it comes to signs of a girl liking you.
That’s still true on the smallest scale.
Because what if she doesn’t send you long messages.
What subtle text signs a girl likes you can you spot in short messages?
More is still better. Even on a small scale.
Like this meme jokingly points out:
Here’s an example straight out of my phone:
Sometimes, her using more letters, syllables, punctuation marks, or emojis, equals her liking you more.
Same goes with her laughing at your texts. Let’s look at it in the next sign.
13. She laughs at everything you say
Her laughing at your texts, is a sign. But also how much she laughs.
How shitty does it feel when you text someone you like and she hits you back with a dry:
I know you’ve been there, and you didn’t love it.
But would you still find it a shitty reply if she replies with a:
Doesn’t feel quite as bad, does it?
It’s funny how nature do that. You think it don’t be like it is but it do.
The longer her laugh, the better.
14: She initiates contact
Here’s possibly the clearest signs that she wants to get to know you.
As long as it’s not a fist fight, you’ll be happy if the other person goes first.
The one initiating the conversation shows interest.
Why would you talk to someone you don’t feel like talking to?
If you notice someone regularly hits you up…
…then rest assured this person likes you.
Btw, if you are curious about what things girls do in real life that gives away that they like you…
…then just look at this video where my girlfriend shows you all the signs.
Onto a sign that’s a bit rarer.
15. She teases you
Teasing the misses is asking for kisses.
The opposite is also true. When a girl teases you, she’s showing interest.
She wants to evoke attention and emotion.
So next time someone teases you, smile. And when the opportunity presents itself, tease back. You’re doing well!
Teasing back and forth is the essence of flirting.
When a girl gives you a nickname, especially a teasing one, that’s a clear text sign a girl likes you.
Let’s cement that idea in the next tip.
16. She gives you a nickname
Every couple ever has nicknames for their lover.
Whether a nickname is teasing or sweet, it’s a good thing.
So next time she calls you:
It’s a texting sign that she likes you.
17. She likes your posts on Instagram
If he often likes your photos, watches your stories, and maybe even comments on your photos…
…she probably likes you.
Careful though! it’s not because someone likes one of your photos every now and then, that they are mad about you. Especially younger people tend to like and interact more on social media than those who are older.
However, if someone likes every post you upload, then chances are high that this person likes you.
This is especially true if you upload photos, videos, and stories that show yourself.
Logic 101: if someone likes images showing YOU, they might like YOU.
If you want to make a bit of a ballsy move, then feel free to copy my lines:
Someone that has absolutely no interest in you, wouldn’t play the whole liking-back-and-forth-game.
Hence I slid in her DMs.
(If you’re looking for more Instagram game and DM sliding, feel free to check my free 10 Texts That Always Work)
Now let’s look at a screenshot again.
18. Example screenshot (Test your knowledge!)
Let’s see if you’re getting the hang of this.
I’m going to show you a screenshot from one of my students.
For you to find all the signs that she likes him.
There are 5 to be found.
If you can find at least four, I’ll bless you with good fortune and your next date will end up on all fours. Just for you.
Anyway, here’s the screenshot:
Three or even all five?
- She started the conversation.
- She starts with a question. After my student replies, she instantly asks another question. And another one later. All her texts are questions, trying to keep the conversation going with him.
- “Shreddin’ through some fresh powder eh haha”. She is trying to belong. Trying to show that she knows your world. She’s finding commonalities. A great way to build a connection by the way.
- Double text.
- Late-night text.
Looks like this apprentice is going to come home to some hookup action.
19. She brings up deep topics
The subject of your conversation reveals a great deal.
Are you casually exchanging greetings and asking each other how their day is? Hmm, not the best.
Are you talking about past crushes or your deepest desires in life? That’s quite a big text sign she likes you.
The more personal subjects he/she brings up through text, the more he/she likes you.
And that brings us to the last sign I got for you today.
20. She texts you when you come online
Ever received a text message just as you checked your app?
What a coincidence…
…or is it?
On some apps, you can see who is online and who isn’t.
In other words, girls can see you pop online and think:
“If I text him right now, I’ll probably get a reply right away because I know he is checking the app at this very moment.”
So, is it really a coincidence?
Or does she find you fun enough to text?
How to know if a girl likes you through text, you wished to know?
Well, now you do.
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