You like someone. Awesome…
…but what are the text signs a girl likes you?
And if you’re a girl, don’t worry. Men do these exact same things.
If you want to know if someone likes you, just read this article and you’ll have the answer.
- 10 Screenshot examples of girls who like the other person
- What the time of her texts say, about her interest in you
- 3 Copy paste lines to slide in her Instagram DMs
- Funny Reddit story of a guy who missed all her signs
- Some very sublte signals that she likes you
- How to know if she is thinking about you
- Much more…
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Sign 1: Text signs a girl likes you on Instagram
If you’re not on Instagram yet, you’re missing out.
It’s probably the hottest platform to get girls to like you.
(And one of the best ways to ruin your productivity and peace of mind.)
Anyway, how can you tell if someone likes you on the gram?
If she often like your photos, watch all your stories, and maybe even comments on your photos.
Careful though, it’s not because someone likes one of your photos every several posts, that they are mad about you. Especially younger people tend to like and interact more than those of us who are more grown-up.
However, if someone likes every post you upload, then chances are big this person likes you.
This is especially true if you upload photos, videos, and stories that show yourself.
Logic 101: if someone likes images showing YOU, they might like YOU.
If all they like are photos of your cat and your baby cousin, they might have a thing for small cute things.
Steal my witty lines to slide ‘n skrrrrt in her DMs.
It’s better to heart eachother’s pictures for a while BEFORE you start texting girls on Instagram.
Read on for some TextGod magic because I will give you 3 copy pastable lines to use.
If you want to make a bit of a ballsy move, then feel free to copy my lines:
By sending her this, I pretty much tell her she’s interested in me. And I’m interested in her.
She confirms this in her reply.
In this case, I didn’t wait until both of us uploaded a couple photos each, spread over several days or weeks. No, I just liked a photo that was already on her profile. She then returned the favor. I liked a second one, and she followed again.
Someone that has absolutely no interest in you, wouldn’t play the whole liking-back-and-forth-game.
Hence I slid in her DM’s.
(If you’re looking for more IG game and DM sliding, feel free to check my free 10 Texts That Always Work)
Now, let’s look at some signs a girl likes you through text.
Sign 2-5: How to tell if a girl likes you over text
Over the course of this article, I’m going to give you TONS of secret ways to recognize signals of flirting over text message.
Here comes the first one:
But, before I reveal exactly what it is, let’s see how good you already are at this.
Can you recognize if this girls like my student?
Nothing but respect towards my clients, but I am baffled that he asked me the following:
“Am I doing well here? I’m not sure if she likes me”
What did you think when you read this, does she like him?
Here’s what I think about it:
She likes him A LOT. My god, she’s all over him. She’s probably jumping up and down like a kid high on sugar whenever she gets a text from my follower.
And that’s why I told him to ask her out ASAP.
Want to know why I’m so sure she’s fond of him?
- She is trying hard to belong. She literally says “I’m your friend also”. And if you thought this was her friendzoning him, you were mistaken. It’s her trying to be part of his life. Just look at her second reply.
- She shows a ton of emotion. The more emotions she shows while texting you, the better. Even if they aren’t all good emotions. But that’s another story.
- She uses a lot of emojis. More on emojis and the destructive power they have, later in this article. In this case she’s trying to show her body language by using emoticons.
- And last but definitely not least. She replies faster than a bodybuilder who got a text from a hottie saying she’s home alone… after he just downed a cocktail of steroids and viagra.
My disciple takes 4 minutes to reply, but when he does, she texts back the same minute.
If someone usually texts back fast, they probably like you.
Bang, the first 4 signs are in.
Now let’s have a look at a really clear sign.
Men get frustrated with girls who reply slowly and with short texts. The main reason is that these men sense that she is not so interested in them. And they are right. They are bored with them because they send cliché, bland texts. Steal more of my lines here for free which arouse her instead of boring her.
Sign 6: Double trouble (this is a clear sign of text flirting)
There’s one sign that reveals a lot about her.
And that’s how much interest she shows in you.
Unfortunately for you. She’ll almost never verbalise her feelings directly to you, unless you’re dating her by now.
Ever received texts like this:
“Hey, I’m really interested in you” or “Hey, I am really into you, please ask me out”.
Oh you haven’t?
No worries, no one does.
It’s just too risky for girls (and guys) to put themselves out there. Ready to get their feelings hurt when the other person rejects them.
So instead, we try to show our interest in more subtle ways.
One way girls will do this, is by double texting you.
Whether it’s on iMsg, Wechat, WhatsApp, Telegram, Facebook messenger, or by written letter… if she double texts you, she probably likes you.
A double text is when a girl sends you a message, while the last text in the conversation already came from her side.
Just like in this screenshot example:
This girl shows A LOT of interest in this WhatsApp screenshot. You can easily recognize this by the amount of texts she sends.
Do note: The first eight texts are NOT double texts. They are all sent in one barrage.
The double text happens when she doesn’t get a reply at 12:58, so she texts again at 17:00.
We also see one way to know that she likes you over text that we already saw earlier. Emojis.
There’s 9 of those little bastards spread across the screen.
There’s a couple other signs here, but we’ll cover those shortly. Let’s stick to the double text for now.
Her double text at 17:00 reads “What is your airline?”, but what it actually says is this:
“P L E A S E, give me another hit of your oh so sweet attention. GIVE IT TO ME, I NEED IT!”
Honestly, do you think she cares what airline he flies with?
She doesn’t. She just wants to talk to the guy.
On to the next three signs!
Sign 7 – 9: Three signs she thinks sexually of you
Men are notoriously bad at picking up signals from girls.
Let’s not make this happen you!
Has a girl ever sent you a photo?
Did it show what she was eating? Was she shopping and asking for advice? Did she just show herself?
All of them have a different meaning, but all of them are good news.
If you ever face a situation like this:
Then you are IN, my friend.
This screenshot tell me BOATLOADS.
There’re four different signals in this screenshot. I’ll talk about three of them now.
- She sent you a photo. A photo means more than words. On top of that, you didn’t ask for a photo, she just sent it. A clear text sign a girl likes you.
- In this case it isn’t a photo of her food or her view. It’s a photo of herself. Her face to be exact. It’s a selfie.
A selfie shows more interest than other photos.
Because when someone shows them self to you, the subcommunication is this:
“Here I am, this is me right now. I look good don’t I?”
“I’m just dumping this selfie here so you get reminded of how cute I look. Just so you’d like me”
3. The third sign is the timing of the text. If someone texts you this late at night, it’s one of the clear signs of flirting over text.
Just how clear this sign is, depends on the amount of alcohol the other person has in their system.
The true meaning of drunk texts… that’s a topic for another time. But one thing’s for sure.
Getting late night texts, is a good thing (and it will happen much more often when you follow my Tinder tips).
The fourth signs that’s hidden in this screenshot, is one we’ll cover further down the article. for now, let’s look at something she sneakily does when she likes you.
Sign 10: How to tell what she thinks about you, this gives her away!
I just told you that getting unsolicited photos, is good news.
It shows so much interest. And some girls know this.
They also know that showing too much interest can scare guys off.
But they want you to see their newest super hot and cute photo, because they want to impress you.
So what do they do?
They send you photos without actually sending them.
You right now: “??????????????????????”
Here’s what they do:
Almost any texting app allows you to set a profile photo. If you notice a girl changing hers while talking to you… that’s a text sign a girl likes you.
(Unless if they are talking to their crush while also talking to you, and they change it for them, and not for you.)
(Sorry, just fücking with you.)
It’s a trick I regularly use myself.
And it’s also the trick a girl used on me in Barcelona. I called her out on it and she admitted she was trying to impress me. The day after she was at my house. That conversation and the detailed breakdown are to be found in my #OTTG Workshop.
Here’s an example of me using this same trick:
Not only can you use this to make her see your hot new pic without having to send it to her…
…you can also change your profile picture in hopes of her restarting the conversation with you. Or just to create passive attraction to everyone on your texting app.
Want a REALLY clear sign that someone’s into you?
That’s what you’ll see in the next tip.
Signs 11: The investing sign of flirting over text
It’s pretty obvious, but some men don’t realize it yet:
When someone sends you super über long texts, then they are interested in you. If they repeatedly do this, and you already know each other quite long, then she might even be in love.
The more texts she blasts your way, the more she’s into you.
Remember, in the end it’s all about the amount of time, energy, and effort someone invests in you.
Here’s an example of a woman on Tinder investing too much in me:
“Dear Louis, did I send you too many texts in one day?”
My Tinder match is onto something.
The huge amount of time she invested into typing that thesis, did scare me off.
Just like your long texts can scare off women.
Here’s what I thought of this woman, and what women will think of you when you bombard them with your essay:
“Why would this person take the time and effort to tell me all this? Why are they so invested in this conversation already? Maybe they have no one to talk to?”
Sometimes you’re in your head, thinking about what to text. Don’t risk sending her half a book. Instead, have a look at the 10 example texts in my TextGod Toolkit. Or just get it to finetune your profile with my included Profile Checklist.
Oh yeah and in that free download you also get the best opener ever. More gifts because, you know, more is better.
Let’s get a bit more subtle now…
Sign 12 – 14: Subtle texting signs to tell a girl has a crush on you
So longer messages means she’s more into you. But…
…what if she doesn’t send you long messages.
What subtle text signs a girl likes you can you spot in short messages?
Good question, sir. Here’s the answer:
More is still better.
Even on small scale.
And no, I’m not telling you to be on the lookout for the length of the words she uses. “Oh my god, she used ‘Incomprehensibilities’, she must really be craving the D.”
I’m talking about her using more letters, syllables, punctuation marks, or emoji’s.
Kind of like this picture jokingly says:
This pic says more y’s equals more interest.
And that’s pretty much the truth.
Same goes with her laughing at your texts.
How shitty does it feel when you text her and she hits you back with a dry “haha”?
I know you’ve been there, and you didn’t love it.
But would you still find it a shitty reply if she said “hahahahahahahaha”?
Doesn’t feel quite as bad, does it?
It’s funny how nature do that. You think it don’t be like it is but it do.
The longer her laugh, the better.
And this also counts for
- Punctuation marks
- Emoji, emoji. Emoji emoji emoji
- Heyyyyyyyyyyy it’s claudiaaaaaaaaaaa. Barcaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
All of them subtle patterns, but when you put them together it becomes quite obvious.
It doesn’t get much more clear than this.
Claudia was looking to eat some of that TextGod filet.
Sign 15: A good start is half the battle
Here’s possible the clearest signs that she wants to get to know you.
A good start is half the battle.
Whether it be on Facebook, Wechat, iMsg, WhatsApp, Bumble, Tinder…
As long as it’s not a good old fistfight, you’ll be happy if the other person goes first.
The one initiating the conversation, shows interest.
Why would you talk to someone you don’t feel like talking to?
If you notice someone regularly hits you up…
…then you can rest assured this person likes you.
Btw, if you are curious what things girls do in real life that gives away that they like you…
…then just look at this video where my girlfriend shows you all the signs.
###coming soon – ‘Signs your Tinder date likes you’.
Onto a sign that’s a bit more rare.
Sign 16: One of the rarest signs of flirting over text (teasing nickname)
Did you know there’s something that girls do when they WANT you, that most men interpret as disinterest?
Maybe you’ve met some girls that teased you…
Girls that ‘try to take over the frame’
Does that bother you?
I often have students that panic when girls tease them. Especially when they mock them or even call them names.
“Damn, Louis, what do I do when she’s always trying to take control over the frame?!”
I can’t help but laugh at this.
“She is trying to take control of the frame”
Sounds very pickup-ey.
What I tell them is this:
If a girl is teasing you and verbally sparring with you…
…you should BE HAPPY.
That’s a great sign.
Teasing back and forth is the essence of flirting.
So don’t sweat it when girls are giving you a hard time like this. Know that you must have been doing something right.
When a girls gives you a nickname, especially a teasing one, that’s a clear text sign a girl likes you.
Let’s cement that idea in the next tip.
Sign 17: What you can learn from 5-year-olds
Teasing the misses, is asking for kisses.
The opposite is also true. When a girl teases you, she’s showing interest.
In general, people tease others to get a reaction out of them.
She wants to evoke attention and emotion.
So next time someone teases you, smile. And when the opportunity presents itself, tease back. You’re winning.
Now let’s look at a screenshot again.
Sign 18: Example conversation
Let’s see if you’re getting the hang of this.
I’m going to show you a screenshot from one of my students now.
For you to find all the signs that she likes him.
There’s four to be found.
If you can find all four, I’ll bless you with good fortune and your next date will end up on all fours. Just for you. For some great fornication. How fortunate. She’ll love you forever.
(Sorry, I never quite made it as a rapper.)
Anyway, here’s the screenshot:
Three or all four?
- She started the conversation.
- She starts with a question. After my student replies, she instantly asks another question. And another one later. All her texts are questions, trying to keep the conversation going with him.
- “Shreddin’ through some fresh powder eh haha”. She is trying to belong. Trying to show that she know your world. She’s finding commonalities. A great way to build a connection by the way.
- Double text.
Looks like this apprentice is going to come home to some bedroom acrobatics.
Sign 19: Texting topic that reveals what she thinks about you
So you’re talking to a girl you like.
You’re always talking about something. But what exactly?
The subject of your conversation reveals a great deal.
Are you casually exchanging greetings and asking each other how their day is? Hmm, not the best.
Are you talking about past crushes or your deepest desires in life? That’s quite a big text sign she likes you.
If you’re a woman reading this, then you’ve probably already noticed that if a man likes you, he’ll often turn the conversation sexual.
(Or he’s just looking for a round of bedroom gymnastics.)
But if a woman brings up sexual topics to a man… that’s a chat sign a girl likes you.
Holy Tip: The more personal subjects he/she brings up through text, the more he/she likes you.
And that brings us to the last sign I got for you today.
Sign 20: How to know if a girl likes you over text
Ever received a text message just as you checked your app?
What a coincidence…
…or is it?
On some apps you can see who is online and who isn’t.
In other words, girls can see you pop online and think:
“If I text him right now, I’ll probably get a reply right away because I know he is checking the app at this very moment.”
So, is it really a coincidence?
Or does she find you fun enough to text?
How to know if a girl likes you through text, you wished to know?
Well now you do.
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