If you’re here, you’re probably physically separated from a very special someone.
Perhaps you’re in a long distance relationship.
Perhaps you’ve been dating for a while.
Maybe you’re on a break.
Whatever your situation, you’re about to get 70 I miss you text examples that’ll make her miss you too.
Plus, you get:
- 20 I miss you texts for someone you’re exclusively dating
- 1 Simple tip that will increase your attraction and make her miss you even more
- The absolute best way to reply if she says she misses you first
- 30 text examples for when you miss the woman you love
- The ONLY time you want to text your ex and how to do it (copy paste my line)
Don’t send anything until you read this
An ‘I miss you’ text is incredibly touching.
But it can also be very dangerous for your relationship.
After all, ‘I miss you’ implies a deep emotional connection to someone.
And if that someone doesn’t feel the same level of connection, she could interpret that as you being needy or clingy. Even creepy.
Which can spell disaster for your relationship.
So before you send an ‘I miss you text’ you MUST know if the person on the other end is likely to feel the same way.
That’s why I only recommend sending ‘I miss you’ texts to:
- Someone you’ve been dating exclusively
- Someone you’re in a relationship with (even if it’s on a break)
- Someone who’s told you they love you
- Someone you’ve known for a very long time
Here come the 70 texts.
20 I miss you texts for someone who you’re dating exclusively
If you have a specific song or playlist that you both loved to listen to, share that!
Replace ‘presentation’ with any big job she’s getting ready for.
Advice that’ll improve any long distance relationship
It’s a fact:
We’re more likely to get into a long distance relationship today, than any other time in history.
We’re traveling more, working abroad, and connecting with far away people through dating apps and social media.
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So we have lots more access to people who aren’t in our local area.
Suddenly you’re in a long distance relationship.
So how do you make it work?
Well, without going too in depth, you at the very least want to do this…
Keeping the emotional momentum going.
And the best way to do that is not a text message.
It’s a voice note.
- It sets you apart. In a world of grey text messages, your voice brings color and leaps off the screen
- You can say much more in the same time it takes you to type up a text
- It shows your humanity. Text messages are nice, but they’re a far cry from your true self
While I don’t recommend you ALWAYS send voice notes.
I do recommend you send voice messages occasionally.
Like when you want to say you miss her.
Here’s a video where I explain exactly how best to use your voice:
Now back to the ‘I miss you’ texts.
20 I miss you texts for someone you’re in a relationship with
#21: Cake is good, mmmm’kay
#22: When you’re a ghost
#23: A sweet puppers
#24: When you want to play it cool
#25: Error 404
#26: It’s just too much
#27: The toofer
#28: The sophisticated gentleman
#29: The anime geek
#30: When you want to get the law involved
#31: The classic
#32: The poetic
#33: When you’re jelly
#34: The exaggerator
#35: When food just isn’t doing it anymore
Replace with your favorite take-away meal.
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#35: Pets don’t cut it
#35: When you’ve been watching too much Bob Ross
#36: When you spend a lot of time on the internet
#37: If you’re both Harry Potter fans
#38: The truth
#39: Truth Part 2
#40: For when you’re on a break
How to respond if she says I miss you first
Congrats! She told you she misses you first.
But how the heck do you reply?
You respond with the truth.
If you miss her too, tell in a way that best reflects your feelings.
Don’t you miss her back?
Tell her nicely that you don’t feel the same way.
Which is not easy to do, but it’s best for everyone in the long run.
30 Texts for when you miss the person that loves you
You can obviously use the previous ‘I miss you’-texts to send to the person you love too.
But if you want to get a little more lovey-dovey, go with these:
#42: A sobering moment
#43: When everything isn’t enough
#44: Pet peeves become pet pleasures
#45: You want your friend back
#46: Sweet or infuriating?
#47: When your hand isn’t enough
#48: Girls smell good
#49: When your heart steps in
#50: How you’re feeling
#51: Your heart got in the way
#50: You can’t use your favorite sandwich spread
#51: She pulled a fast one
#52: She forgot something
#53: Love can really be that simple
#54: A curveball
#55: You don’t know what you have until it’s gone
#56: Your heart is malfunctioning
#57: Even the little things
#58: When she’s kinesthetic
#59: If given two options
#60: Songwriters know what’s up
#61: Only special people
#62: The difference
#63: The one
#65: How you’re feeling
#66: What you want to do
#67: It hurts
#68: She’s your favorite
#69: Not just any hole
#70: Feeling under the weather
5 I miss you texts for someone you’ve known for a very long time
You’re about to get some ‘I miss you’ texts for a platonic friend.
As it is now, they’re directed to a male friend.
So if your friend happens to be a woman, just make a few minor adjustments.
Are you about to send an I miss you text to a girl that you’re secretly crushing on or in love with?
STOP. RIGHT. NOW.
Saying you miss her will only get you pulled into the friendzone even further.
If you want to eventually date her, you want to do something else.
Find out in this free article of mine:
#71: When you don’t hang out as much
#72: A reminder
#73: When the friendship has been going on MAD long
#74: A token of appreciation
#75: Out of sight, but not out of mind
1 Text how to tell your ex you miss her
When you break up with someone you love or have loved, you spend a lot of time agonizing over that person.
Agonize over that person enough and you may reach the conclusion you want that person back.
Which can be a good idea depending on the reason.
Do you feel lonely? Bad idea.
Do you have a great connection? Better idea, if… that person has the same standards in life as you. If that person has value systems totally different to your own, getting back together is a horrible idea.
What’s the best reason to want your ex back and say you miss her?
If you’re right for each other in every aspect, but the relationship fizzled due to a timing issue.
Is that the case?
Then you can rekindle your lost love.
Otherwise I strongly suggest moving on.
What makes this text so good?
- It’s positive without being desperate (instead of losing sleep over her, you only mention that your memory of her made you smile)
- You’re doing great
- You cut to the chase and show her you want to catch up
Now the ball is in her court.
Let’s hope she comes back to you with some good news.
Other ways to show you miss her
We just discussed 77 texts on how to tell you miss her.
But that’s not the only way to show her how you’re feeling.
Pick up a pen and write her a letter.
Send her some flowers.
And most simple and personal of all, arrange a video chat!
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