In Love With a Friend: 10 Tips to Make Her Fall in Love Too

There she is.

Your best female friend you’re desperately in love with.

However, she doesn’t know your craving.

How do you make sure she’ll also see you as a potential boyfriend or lover? How do you turn her into your girlfriend? And how do you prevent failure?

If you’re in love with a friend, this article will tell you everything you need.

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What do I do if I’m in love with my best friend’s girlfriend?


If you care about your friend and you think your feelings are interfering with the friendship, you want to do three things:

  • Share your feelings with your friend.
  • Distance yourself from the girl as best you can.
  • Embrace the idea of meeting other women.

So the next time you’re together with your friend and the timing is right, speak up.

Here’s an example of what you can tell them:

“Hey, something a little weird and I only say this because I really value our friendship: I think I have romantic feelings for your girlfriend. I have absolutely ZERO intentions to pursue them. But I want to share this with you because your friendship means the world to me. Can you help me out on how to deal with this?”

It might feel very difficult and uncomfortable for you.

Especially if you’re not used to being so open and vulnerable.

But by being honest about what’s going on inside of you, your fears and anxieties about the situation will most likely disappear. Maybe not completely, but it definitely won’t bother you as much as first.

And if you keep your feelings to yourself, your discomfort will probably just increase.

1. Know where you stand right now

Before you scroll down, and blindly apply my tips without second thought, pay attention.

Because firstly, you want to determine what kind of relationship you and your female friend have. This prevents mistakes down the line.

If you’re in love with a good friend, the feelings can be mutual or one-sided. Or even something in between.

Is it still one-sided right now?

No worries, you can change that.

Unsure about the relationship between you?

Make sure you don’t voice all your feelings to her out of NOWHERE.

It’s completely fine to EXPRESS your feelings.

But have a look at the situation from her perspective:

Suppose she sees you as an ordinary friend.

What do you think will happen if you declare your love for her?

She’ll be completely stunned. And probably unsure of what to do.

That’s why it’s so important to figure out what the relationship is between the two of you:

  • Does she see me as a friend or more?
  • Is she giving off signs that she likes me?
  • Has she ever reciprocated my flirty remarks?

Do any examples spring to mind?

In this article you’ll learn how to attract her. And how to make your best girl friend, your girlfriend.

2. Find out if your female friend already likes you

It’s possible that she’s into you.

And it’s a BIG mistake not to act on that fast. Feelings can linger for a while, but fade if nobody pursues them.

Luckily, there is a safe way to tell if someone likes you. This way you can feel safe to express your feelings.

Pay attention to her body language.

  • Does she flaunt what she’s got? Women know what you find attractive and will emphasize her best assets when she likes you. Like wearing a push-up bra for bigger breasts, or lipstick for fuller lips. She may even arch her back to push out her breasticles.
  • Does she copy you? When people like each other, they tend to behave like one another. Both verbally and physically. So if she copies your every pose, you can be sure there’s some chemistry. Although that might still be platonic.
  • Does she bite her lips? The lips of a woman are the mirrors of her ‘other lips’. Do you see her wetting her lips often while talking to you? Then she might be wet somewhere else, especially if she does it while looking you in the eyes.


3. Make her see you in a sexy light

These are kryptonite for your sexual chemistry.

When you’re having fun together, does she ever call you ‘sweet’ and ‘nice’? Do you often talk about her love life with other men?

Then it’s just as I thought, your relationship is friendly.

How did it get there?

Well, guys generally get friend zoned when their conversations have ZERO sexual tension.

Deep and meaningful chatter, but no teasing and flirty touch.

And what’s the big difference between friendship and romance?

The touching and sexual vibes!

That’s why you want to flirt with a woman the moment you find her attractive.

It sets the right expectations.

Buuuuut there’s a problem!

Because you’ve been behaving nice and sweet for so long, the friendship vibes are HUUUGE.

Suddenly turning the tide isn’t an easy task.

So how do you start?

Slowly and subtly express your sexual interests.

The keyword being: subtle.

Suppose she one day walks into the room in a beautiful red dress. Her red lipstick matches it perfectly.

Then you want to go, “Shit, woman. You’re looking fine as hell! Get changed so I can focus.”

For a second, she’ll think you’re insulting her. Only to find out it’s a playful compliment. Because of this push and pull, the compliment is so much more effective.

Try it.

4. Flirt over text like a pro

Seeing as it’s your best friend, flirting with her over text is actually going to be easy.

You may not think so yourself yet.

That’s why I’m going to give you a simple but powerful way to create some much-needed tension between you.

Sexual tension, giggity.

How can I be so sure?

Well, since you’re BFFs, chances are that you both enjoy the same things.

So, the next time you’re chatting about a topic you both love, I want you to apply the next technique.

Playfully say she’s just like you but without a penis.

Probably sounds a little weird.

So let me give you an example.

The conversation starts off with a friendly vibe. We’re talking about what we both love: VR.

On the one hand, it’s a good conversational topic. On the other, it’s absolutely the least flirty topic ever.

That’s why I do a 180 and steer away from boredom towards sexiness.

Using this line obviously won’t make her fall head over heels right off the bat.

See flirty remarks as the first droplets in the bucket that will eventually transform your relationship from friendly to romantic.

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6. Keep your conversations emotional

There’s one shitty talent that almost all men possess.

Turning conversations deadly boring. Especially with women. And most definitely online.

We like to talk about facts and details. It’s in our DNA.

That’s why we like to talk so much about sports, history, and dinosaurs.

I’m not the only one right?

But the way we talk with the guys doesn’t really get the ladies excited.

These factual topics we love so much lack emotion and drama.

The two things that women absolutely ADORE.

To give her a fun time talking to you, you want to make your conversations emotional.

Either by choosing exciting topics, or injecting every text with emo juice.

For now, go with exciting topics.

Which subject is the most exciting of them all?


Well done, dear reader. We’re on the same frequency.

The way to go about is obviously subtle.

You don’t want to be a creeper.

Here’s an example:

Let me highlight what I want you to notice here.

She’s saying, “wow that’s DEEPER than I expected.”

To which I reply, “there’ll be TWO times in your life when you’ll say that to me.”

This is how I subtly imply that we’ll be doing some bedroom acrobatics WITHOUT using any vulgar language.

You’re showing some wit, instead of coming across as a horny teen.

Again, you see that one message is enough to turn the conversation from sweet to sexy.

7. Give her room if she’s not ready for a relationship

Houston, we have a problem:

You love her, she merely likes you.

Maybe she likes you just as friends. Perhaps she likes to fool around a little.

But happily ever after is clearly off the table.

What do you do?

Don’t try to win her over.

I totally understand the desire to help her see how perfect you are for each other.

But it’s unlikely to work.

The more time and effort you put into showing you’re awesome, the more she’s likely to feel that you’re not right for each other.

After all, you’re trying very hard to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you.

That’s not a good look, right?

So if you want to have a chance with someone who’s not ready for a relationship, here’s what you do.

Do less and give her space to invest.

“You want me to do nothing while I watch the woman that I’m crazy about slip away from me?”

Crazy, I know. But not really.

You see, by easing off the gas pedal, she can sense YOU are pulling away too.

And if you’re important to her, she won’t like that. Not one bit.

As she feels that she’s losing you, she’s then motivated to reach out and hold onto you.


You got her right where you want.

So, what can you do?

  • Stop initiating the contact every time. Let her send that first message, or let her start a conversation topic for a change.
  • Be a bit shorter over text. Reply positively and warm, yes. But keep it short.
  • Does she invite you somewhere? Say you can’t on that day, but do give one other option. In other words: make yourself busy with other things but her.


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