The Truth About One Night Stands on Tinder

A one-night stand, or ‘ONS’, is exactly what it sounds like: a casual encounter with no long-term expectations.

But is it really possible to find a genuine, no-strings-attached fling on Tinder?

The short answer is yes, but it does require some work. This article will tell you how to make your one-night stand dreams a reality.

In this article:

• Can you get a one night stand on Tinder?
• How do you find someone on Tinder for a one night stand? Best 3 tips
• Tinder pictures for one night stands – Do’s and don’ts
• Tinder bios for one night stands
• How to get a one night stand on Tinder

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Can you get a one night stand on Tinder?

Do you want to know the secret to getting one night stands on Tinder? Is it even possible?

Yes! It’s definitely possible to get a one-night stand on Tinder.

The app is often used for casual dating, and many people are upfront about wanting something short-term or no-strings-attached. And that’s the secret. The key is being clear about your intentions from the start.

That way you attract more people who are also looking for one night of erotic bedroom acrobatics.

How do you find someone on Tinder for a one night stand? Best 3 tips

Here are a few things you can do right now on your Tinder profile to attract people who are also looking for a casual Tinder hookup.

1. Be clear enough in your profile

Confusion is the enemy of seduction.

If someone can’t figure out what you want by checking your Tinder profile, you’re more likely to get swiped left.

That goes for all intentions, whether it’s a Tinder one night stand, a serious relationship, or just wanting someone to farm experience with in World of Warcraft Classic.

In this case, your profile has to reflect your intentions well enough that you turn off people looking for something serious.

How? Well for starters, have a collection of photos that don’t make you look like boyfriend material (more on that later) and write a flirty (yet tasteful) bio.

That way you’re more likely to attract someone more open to spontaneous adventures. Including one night stands of pure ecstasy.

2. Use the right photos

Here’s how to signal you’re looking for a hookup on Tinder.

Use edgier and sexier photos.

That means no photos smiling with you and your sweet grandma. No photos surrounded by cute puppies. No photos with your adorable nieces playing princess. In other words: stop looking like you’re her future hubbie.

So what photos should you use? I’ll explain more a bit later in the article with some examples.

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3. Swipe the right profiles

Here’s a secret to attract more people who want a Tinder one night stand: don’t be too hopeful.

“Uhmmm, you telling me to give up on finding a one night stand on Tinder, Louis???”

Not at all, homie.

The thing is, not every girl on Tinder is looking for one night of fun. A large number of girls are looking for love and something more long-term. And it’d be silly to try and hook up with them, right?

That’s why I’m telling you not to automatically swipe every hot girl’s profile. Sure, you can, but you might get disappointed when only one out of ten swipes leads to a match. Or (much more likely) you’ll get frustrated that many girls you get out on a date don’t want to go home with you.

Focus most of your attention on profiles with the ‘right’ signals.  Anything that says, “I’m looking for a good time.” Less quantity, but more quality in terms of both of you wanting the same things.

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Tinder pictures for one night stands – Do’s and don’ts

Here are some examples of pictures you can use for a casual Tinder hookup vibe.

But first, let’s talk optimization. This is the optimal collection of pictures on your Tinder profile:

• The first picture should show your You only have one chance to get her to check out your other pictures. So your first picture should be a high-quality, chest-up picture of yourself.
• The next two pictures should show you’re It’s your chance to make her see how awesome being with you would be. Of course, showing your attractiveness in these pictures also doesn’t hurt anyone.
• The last one or two pictures should focus on She knows you’re attractive and fun. The last thing she needs to know is if you’re a normal guy that won’t be weird, especially when it comes to a one night stand.

Now this order isn’t set in stone.

I would always recommend you to start with an attractive picture of yourself.

But after that, a lot depends on the actual content of your pictures. Some show fun and trust at the same time.

However, keep in mind that showing you’re FUN AND ATTRACTIVE has a higher priority than showing your trustworthiness when it comes to just hooking up. Because she first wants to feel excited about you before anything else.

Bit of a smile, but still sexy. (One big toothy smile pic max though!)

Who wouldn’t want to kiss in the most romantic city in the world.

Even average looking guys can create a hot photo like this (just put on a muscle suit. Jokes aside focus on the facial expression please).

Get her blood pumping with a helicopter ride.

Outfit, smirk, and crop all on point.

Hope you don’t mind getting a little wet…

Doing cool shyt.

Here are some more examples from members in our TextGod Mentoring Program which also get superb results. We blocked their faces though. Sorry catfishers, you’re not stealing anything today!

Fun and silly but still attractive? Hell yes.

TextGod Coach Justin’s #1 most liked adventure photo of all time.

Showing off those toned arms.

A fun, sexy, yet artistic photo of one of our mentees.

ME! Hugging our office doggo while showing off my physique.

Coach Justin when we grabbed breakfast, showing off his trained Greek God muscles.

Tinder bios for one night stands

For hooking up on Tinder, your bio is pretty important.

Even if your photos are a 10/10, a lame or boring bio can send you straight to having a night alone with just you and Mr. Handpalm.

For something casual, keep your Tinder bio fun, short, and a bit flirty.

• My kink is when someone is curious about me and listens to my stories.
• I’m 6’3 and my love language is physical touch. So I’m basically a big teddy bear.
• I’m the Owen Wilson of Tinder in that my looks are “wow” and my personality is “kachow.”
• I’d ask you to Netflix and chill, but I haven’t been chill a day in my life.
• Not interested in casual hookups. Only semi-formal hookups. That’s the kind where we both show up in suits and ties.
• There’s no bigger turn on than a girl who reads.
• [A bit more risky but effective for ons] Growing up I had straight A’s. Now, I’m looking to F.
• Last night, I spooned myself some ice cream. Tonight, I’d rather spoon you.
• Please don’t get me hot and bothered. I’m more of a winter type of guy.
• If I catch you not signaling while driving, I’m undoing my seatbelt and jumping out.
• I still ride on the back of shopping carts when I shop.
• Can be easily bribed with cherries, reading me a bedtime story, or a new lego set.
• Please don’t degrade me based on my photos.
• If you like cold coffee, Taylor Swift, and butt stuff, we’ll get along just great.
• Break my bed, not my heart.
• I practice safe eating in that I don’t eat Strawberries, Tangerines, or Donuts.
• I used to hate getting spanked as a child. Funny how things change.
• I don’t even need both hands, just my little finger.
• If you try to high five me after sex I’m pouring cold water on you.
• I’m like a fine wine—bold, smooth, and intoxicating.

And for a billion more great Tinder bios, check out these articles. (And it’s actually a billion, I counted).

●      120 Best Flirty Tinder Bios for Guys and Girls + Guide

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How to get a one night stand on Tinder

Now that you’ve dialed in your pictures and Tinder bio for something more casual, it’s all about messaging. There are a few steps, starting with the first message.

Step 1. Grab her attention

Never, ever, EVER, start with something generic, like “Hey how are you?”

That’ll turn your potential steamy hookup into a steamy pile of garbage.

You need to stimulate her emotions right from the beginning.

• 75+ First Tinder messages that WORK – Funny & Flirty examples

Step 2. Be a high value guy

What do most guys do on Tinder? They put their match on a pedestal or go the opposite route and act like they’re way better than her.

The first makes you a simp and the other an a-hole. Neither do particularly well with women. Who does get the girls? The high value man.

That’s why I want you to show that you’re a man of quality. At the very least a diamond in the rough.

So where do you start?

You act like you’re the prize (you know you’re a catch), but instead of being ‘too cool for school’ you show you’re relatable too. This is how you’ll make her more attracted to you while being trustworthy too.

Here are some concrete texting tips for you to follow:

• Express self-love. “That’s a lot of text. It’s cute when you try so hard”.
• Playfully push her away. “I love your style, but what is up with all those bathroom selfies lol”.
• Use suggestive language. “One sex. SEC. Oops, auto correct can apparently read my mind”.

Once you can do these things well, you will be a man women are dying to meet up with.

For more details on how to talk to girls, check out my next article:

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Step 3. Ask her out

Once she’s clearly having a good time, it’s time to make your move. If she’s enjoying texting you, she’ll almost certainly enjoy seeing you in real life.

But don’t mention the one night stand directly! Just ask her out like you would any other time.

Women, in general, don’t like to feel like you only want them for their bodies. And that’s exactly what talking about a one night stand does, it makes them feel cheap, easy, and slutty.

Now this doesn’t mean they don’t want or don’t enjoy one single romp in the hay. They do. They just want it to happen spontaneously because it feels like a normal continuation of a fun date. But if you plan sex, you’re saying that you don’t give a crap about vibes or her company, you just like her for her lady parts.

See the difference?.

So the best way to ask for a one night stand is to heat up the conversation and suggest to hang out. Go for a regular meet-up or date, but make sure there’s clear sexual tension in your conversation. That way she has a better idea of what to expect: smexy times.

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Step 4. Meet up

Just because you got her out on the date doesn’t mean you two are playing hanky panky. It can happen, but usually, you won’t immediately go to your place. Instead, you’ll go out for drinks first.

Where most guys go wrong, is that they’ll end up at a bar yapping for 3 hours and totally ruin all chances of hooking up. Yes, having a chat can be fun. But it’s not the best way to get a girl excited to tear your clothes off, right?

So if you want a one night stand, you want to make your dates exciting and dynamic.

Let me show you what I mean:

• Meet somewhere a 5-minute walk away from the venue you’re taking her to (let’s suppose it’s a cocktail bar)
• Do one drink at the bar before leaving to grab ice cream
• On your way to the ice cream shop, walk through the park
• Buy ice cream and walk along the promenade as the sun sets
• Then say you want to show her an awesome show on Netflix and take her home

The more things you do on your date, the more fun it will be, and the more excited she is about doing other adventurous things with you. The closer your date looks like an adventure, the higher chances you’ll have a one night stand.

Now, just because she’s coming over to your place doesn’t mean you’ll end up in the bedroom. There are many things that can go wrong.

Here are a few tips to make sure the both of you are having a fun and carefree time. That might not sound sexy, but that’s exactly what will lead to a hot and steamy evening. So pay attention to the next tips:

• Make sure your house smells good. It doesn’t need to smell like the garden of eden, but a single scented candle works wonders.
• Clean your place. A dirty home is a huge turn-off for most women. Right up there with dirty fingernails. Yuck.
• Have good lighting. Lights are a great mood setter, so opt for dim, romantic soft lights.
• Don’t jump her the moment you get home. Give her some time to settle in and adjust.
• Put on some chill music. Some easy and relaxing can help set the mood, and brings ambiance to the occasion.
• Show her around. Give them a little house tour! Not only does it make conversation easy, it also makes her more comfortable with the situation because she’ll have a better understanding of you and your place.

And of course, use protection.

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Blessings,
Louis Farfields

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