You got a girl’s number.
Perhaps you even went on a date.
But then she didn’t reply and you realize:
“She ghosted me!”
This article explains why she disappeared and how to get back her attention.
- Should you text her after ghosting you?
- 10 Reasons why she ghosted you
- 1. You were too much
- 2. You did too little
- 3. You made her too important
- 4. You’re plain ol’ boring
- 5. You didn’t create sparks on the date
- 6. You violated the English language
- 7. You had no control over it
- 8. You were too careful in the bedroom
- 9. You were cawkblocked by your rivals
- 10. You aren’t a fit anymore
- Do this if they go in and out of your life
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Should you text her after ghosting you?
If someone has been ghosting you for weeks or more, it usually means that they aren’t interested in you anymore or that they need space.
So if you do choose to text them, it’s best not to interrupt their ‘me-time’. And during that time, you want to figure out if you want someone in your life who isn’t making you a priority.
If you’ve never met in person, I recommend getting in touch again.
If you’ve already spent quality time together, it’s probably a better idea to spend your energy on someone who clearly likes you back.
10 Reasons why she ghosted you
1. You were too much
Many men steer the conversation with their donger.
And the male organ is not known for being a great compass.
If your manhood spots a pretty lady, it wants to send texts like:
An authentic statement. But also women repellent.
The problem with being overly cocky or sexual is that it moves the conversation TOO fast.
You’re forcing her to make a snap decision:
“Do I like him enough to continue or not?”
Because she barely knows you, her choice is based on almost nothing.
Which means the odds are at least 69% against you.
And I don’t like those numbers except in the bedroom.
So take the directness down a notch.
2. You did too little
By far, most guys stimulate women too little.
Rather than put their sex pickle behind the wheel, they tape their cocktapus down so they look like a Ken doll. Put simply, they hide their sexual intentions.
And then they try to win a girl over with compliments and friendly chit-chat.
A moment of silence for our fallen friend.
It’s all very nice. But if she’s looking for male companionship, rather than a text buddy, this type of behavior gets you ghosted.
To get laid or get a girlfriend, you must show there is a possibility of sex.
3. You made her too important
Showing interest in a person is one of the greatest compliments you can give someone. But it can also be one of the worst gifts you give someone.
Let me explain.
We all want to feel special. But only by someone we like.
And how do we usually grow to like someone we just met?
By earning their love and attention.
Did you give your love and attention to her for free?
Then she probably doesn’t care for it.
In fact, if you made her your priority even though she didn’t do anything to deserve, she’d probably freak out.
And ghost you.
4. You’re plain ol’ boring
If your favorite icebreaker is ‘hey’, you’re probably a pussy slayer.
Your texts have actually caused vaginas to commit harakiri.
Look, ‘hey’ and its many cousins aren’t usually enough for a girl to instantly dislike you.
But it’s a strong sign that you’re probably not the most fun and flirty person to chat with. And that drastically increased your odds of being ghosted.
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5. You didn’t create sparks on the date
If she didn’t text you after the date, this is usually the answer.
She didn’t feel a spark.
And instead of telling you, she chose to ghost you. Pretty harsh.
But also incredibly common.
Keep in mind that she probably has dozens of other guys who will sprint out of their man cave to meet her at a moment’s notice.
While I agree it’s rude to ghost after a date, she doesn’t really owe you anything either. She barely knows you.
Anyway, no stress.
Take this opportunity to improve your Tinder profile and get more matches.
6. You violated the English language
Grammar, spelling, and punctuation may not seem like a big deal. But it can be a big turn-off for women.
Heck, I bet your not exectly a phan of spelling misteaks eather.
(Writing that sentence caused me physical pain.)
So be sure to double-check your texts before hitting ‘send’.
When she loves ass so much she uses it like perfume.
7. You had no control over it
If a cute girl who you KNOW liked you, ghosted you like Casper, here’s why.
Life probably got in the way.
- She’s busy: stuck in the rat race, lost in her study books, or on a nudist holiday.
- She’s emotionally troubled: lost her job, failing uni, or depressed about how lopsided her breasts are.
- She has other priorities: family, career, or saving up for her boob job.
Give her the space she clearly wants.
Use her silence as a moment of reflection:
She’s too busy to think of you. So how can you become too busy to think of her?
Perhaps brainstorm your costume for Halloween.
Here’s an idea:
8. You were too careful in the bedroom
If her intention was to find someone to have sex with, there’s one mistake you can’t make.
Being too careful and tentative.
If sex is all she’s interested in, you better do a good job.
Did she cut off all communication after you took her to bonetown?
Then perhaps you gave her respectful and awkward love-making, while she wanted earth-shattering monkey sex.
9. You were cawkblocked by your rivals
Sometimes getting ghosted isn’t your fault.
It’s the fault of your disappointing dating app competition.
If her online dating experiences gave her more grief than good, she might have deleted the app.
Which leaves her account online for everyone to see, even though she can’t reply.
So she may not be ghosting you on purpose.
She’s just done with all your Tinder buddies.
10. You aren’t a fit anymore
It’s hard if someone you’ve been seeing for a while ghosts you and cuts off all communication.
It just leaves you with so many questions.
Just see it as a sign that you aren’t a fit anymore.
Are you hurting and would you like them back in your lives?
Send them the next text and see how they react.
For a friendship to have meaning, it doesn’t have to last forever.
The time you spent together is meaningful enough. However long it lasted.
Do this if they go in and out of your life
If she’s moving back and forth between hot and cold, you want to ask yourself one question:
“Can I live with this behavior without it sucking the joy out of my life?”
Basically, the more important she is to you, the more painful it is to be ignored by her.
And that pain can do serious harm to your quality of life.
So I recommend you only allow flaky people into your life if you don’t particularly care about them.
And if you do start caring, you want to figure out if she can commit.
If not, it’s probably best to move on and fine another girl.
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