60 Text Messages To Get Her In The Mood

If you’re here, you’re probably in a relationship that you want to spice up a little.

Or you’re seeing a girl casually who sets your loins on fire.

Whatever the case may be, one thing is clear:

You want texts that get her in the mood.


Because that’s what you’re about to get. 60 of ‘em.

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Who these spicy and fiery texts are for

Whatever you do…

…do NOT just copy-paste your favorite line of this article and hit send.

That may ruin everything.


The timing may be off.

Or worse, you’re not in a position where she’s ready to hear something that sexual from you.

To keep your lady around, you want to follow the next guideline:

Always adjust your intimate and flirty texts to your relationship with her.

What does that mean?

To help you see the difference, I split the messages into mild and spicy flirting.

Are you in the early dating phase? Stick to the mild texts.

Are you in a committed relationship? Choose the spicy texts.

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30 Mild messages to get her in the mood when you’re not that close

  • Hey, something super important. [She replies] What are you getting for me on Valentine’s Day? 😎
  • I had a dream about you last night. [She replies] Let’s just say I’ve never seen that side of you before.
  • I’m too shy to say it, but I wish you knew what I was thinking about right now.
  • If you had to choose between loveless sex or sexless love, what do you pick?
  • [If she gives you a compliment] I bet you tell that to all the guys, player.
  • When you’re going to tattoo my name on your body, will you get it on your arm or your butt?
  • [She’s being a little boring] You’re so bad! Talk more [boring stuff] to me, babe.
  • [When she says anything remotely flirty] Wow, you really are trouble aren’t you.
  • What do you find the most attractive physical quality in a man?
  • Man, I am DRIPPING wet. Just got caught in the rain without an umbrella.
  • [After she agrees to meet up] Cool I can’t wait for you to come.
  • [If she’s struggling with studying for her exams] Why’d you go to uni if you don’t like it hard?
  • I just noticed I do the strangest thing when I text you. [She replies] I can’t stop making sexy faces [send her a GIF of a silly animal]
  • [When she says something you don’t like] That’s it. We’re breaking up.
  • What’s the weirdest place you’ve kissed someone?
  • [When she says something you disagree with] Okay, you’re under arrest. Next time I see you I’m going to put you in handcuffs 👮‍♂️
  • [After you come home from a date and smell her perfume] I can still smell you
  • A bit random but, do you prefer to be touched gently or firmly?
  • Guess what’s on my mind and win a prize. Here’s a hint: it involves my mouth and your lips.
  • All day long I’ve been thinking about this super sexy babe… what should I do?
  • Had spotify on random and it’s only playing date songs. I don’t think it’s a coincidence 😉
  • I just got out of the shower and I’m thinking of what to wear today. What are you up to?
  • Just had the most amazing shower. I had to tell you even though I’m still wet.
  • What guy in Game of Thrones (or other popular show she watches) do you find the most attractive?
  • lol, I just spilled my breakfast all over me. Now my stomach and boxers are covered in cornflakes 🎉
  • What’s something you’ve always wanted to try in bed that you’ve never done?
  • What’s the most daring and exciting piece of clothing you have?
  • What’s the best thing a boyfriend could do for you. Something sexy and physical? Or something romantic and sweet?
  • What’s the most romantic thing a guy has ever done for you?
  • I saved you a seat, where are you?

30 Spicy messages for when you’ve known each other a while

  • Don’t wear anything fancy tonight. Because I don’t think I can help myself from tearing your clothes off of you.
  • I can still taste you on my lips.
  • Lying in bed, wishing you were here to play Simon Says with me.
  • Eating an ice cream sundae right now and wishing it was you…
  • Imagine you walk into your bedroom and see me on your bed… What would you do?
  • Sometimes when I think about you I feel so out of control.
  • I love it when you do [insert sensual act] to me.
  • What do you prefer down below? Shaved? Trimmed? Au natural?
  • Brrr… it’s cold. Would love to have something warm wrapped around my face and neck.
  • What’s the naughtiest thought you’ve ever had about me? ]If you tell me yours, I’ll tell you mine.
  • Dang, I just had a dream about you and you ROCKED my world. I bet you couldn’t do it again 😉
  • I have a boxershort emergency. I need an expert STAT
  • You have no idea how crazy you make me when you get turned on.
  • Nothing turns me on more than thinking about you.
  • I love the way you put your nails in my back when I’m on top of you.
  • There’s something missing in my life… You want to know what? [She replies] You riding me.
  • You’re so fucking hot.
  • I want to be inside of you and hear you moan like nobody’s listening.
  • I loved the way you did (BLANK) last night. It was soooo hot.
  • Huh, it’s the weirdest thing. I can’t take off my boxers. Can you come over and do it for me?
  • Just thinking what you’d look like on top of me. I really like what I see.
  • Babe, I can’t concentrate at work because all I can think about is last night. I’m going to spank you for that.
  • I want to see your o-face.
  • I can’t fall asleep. All I can think about is what we’d be doing if you were here with me.
  • Making love to you makes me so wild. It’s like we’re in our own world, away from the rest of humanity.
  • Your skin, your smell, the way you wiggle your butt when I’m lying against you… You turn me on so much, babe.
  • Your moans are the sexiest sound in the world.
  • Tonight I’m going to bite you, slap you, and choke you until you’re shaking with pleasure.
  • Call in sick tomorrow so we can spend all day fucking each other’s brains out.
  • Can you do something for me? [Her reply] Imagine a hot scenario with me in it. Next time I see you I’m going to try and surpass it

That was the 60th text message to get her in the mood…

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