Online Dating Coach
Louis Farfields
Apr 28, 2025
So you want to get her in the mood and horny through text. In this article, you’ll discover how to make a girl’s hormones rise over text.
You’ll get my best texts that get her in the mood and I’ll explain exactly how to get her there.
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How to get her in the mood through text
Before sending the following lines to your special lady, keep this in mind: Always adjust your intimate and flirty texts to your relationship with her.
If the timing is off, or you’re not in a position where she’s ready to hear something that sexual from you, you might blow things up.
What does that mean?
- Don’t send her sexual texts if you’re JUST friends.
- Keep the adult texts light if you only just started dating. Sending her hardcore x-rated messages at this early stage will highly likely scare her off.
If you barely know a girl, you can’t turn her on by sending risky and dirty texts out of the blue. You have to slowly build up from the current state of your texting conversation.
However, if you’re already sleeping together and know each other a bit longer, it’s safer to go hard in your texts.
To help you see the difference, I split the messages into mild and spicy texts. Are you in the early dating phase? Stick to the mild texts. Are you in a committed relationship? Choose the spicy texts.
30 Sexy texts to get her in the mood (when you haven’t slept together yet)
If you only know her through text, or if you haven’t slept together yet, you can’t just start texting sexy stuff.
Men typically get turned on like an on/off switch, one thing can instantly make us horny. Women however or more similar to a volume knob. You have to build it up slowly.
Follow these steps:
- Make sure the conversation is playful and flirty.
- Subtly add sexual context or send messages that are interpretable in several ways. This acts as bait to see if she likes it.
- When she reciprocates, start turning things up a bit, step by step.
An important note. If your goal in getting her horny and wet through text is to meet up for “sexy time”, understand this: The best way to get laid, is getting her slightly aroused but not being too explicit. It’s the adventure and the feeling that stuff happened spontaneously in the moment that attracts her. Not the explicit sex meet-up.
However, if you just want to get her aroused for the fun of it, do whatever you want.
Here are 30 texts to slightly move the conversation in a sexy direction. When things get hot, move on to the spicy messages further below.
- Hey, something super important. [She replies] What are you getting for me on Valentine’s Day? 😎
- I had a dream about you last night. [She replies] Let’s just say I’ve never seen that side of you before.
- I’m too shy to say it, but I wish you knew what I was thinking about right now.
- If you had to choose between loveless sex or sexless love, what do you pick?
- [If she gives you a compliment] I bet you tell that to all the guys, player.
- When you’re going to tattoo my name on your body, will you get it on your arm or your butt?
- [She’s being a little boring] You’re so bad! Talk more [boring stuff] to me, babe.
- [When she says anything remotely flirty] Wow, you really are trouble aren’t you.
- What do you find the most attractive physical quality in a man?
- Man, I am DRIPPING wet. Just got caught in the rain without an umbrella.
- [After she agrees to meet up] Cool I can’t wait for you to come.
- [If she’s struggling with studying for her exams] Why’d you go to uni if you don’t like it hard?
- I just noticed I do the strangest thing when I text you. [She replies] I can’t stop making sexy faces [send her a GIF of a silly animal]
- [When she says something you don’t like] That’s it. We’re breaking up.
- What’s the weirdest place you’ve kissed someone?
- [When she says something you disagree with] Okay, you’re under arrest. Next time I see you I’m going to put you in handcuffs 👮♂️
- [After you come home from a date and smell her perfume] I can still smell you
- A bit random but, do you prefer to be touched gently or firmly?
- Guess what’s on my mind and win a prize. Here’s a hint: it involves my mouth and your lips.
- All day long I’ve been thinking about this super sexy babe… what should I do?
- Had spotify on random and it’s only playing date songs. I don’t think it’s a coincidence 😉
- I just got out of the shower and I’m thinking of what to wear today. What are you up to?
- Just had the most amazing shower. I had to tell you even though I’m still wet.
- What guy in Game of Thrones (or other popular show she watches) do you find the most attractive?
- lol, I just spilled my breakfast all over me. Now my stomach and boxers are covered in cornflakes 🎉
- What’s something you’ve always wanted to try in bed that you’ve never done?
- What’s the most daring and exciting piece of clothing you have?
- What’s the best thing a boyfriend could do for you. Something sexy and physical? Or something romantic and sweet?
- What’s the most romantic thing a guy has ever done for you?
- I saved you a seat, where are you?
I've put together 10 Texts that always work. Copy-paste lines that instantly attract her and make her crave your attention. They work and they are free.
Get them for free!30 Spicy texts to make her wet and horny
When you’ve already had sex, or are in a relationship together, it’s safer to send texts and words that turn her on, since it isn’t weird.
However, always pay attention to the current vibe of your conversation and if it’s appropriate.
Here’s 30 spice and sexy texts to turn her on:
- Don’t wear anything fancy tonight. Because I don’t think I can help myself from tearing your clothes off of you.
- I can still taste you on my lips.
- Lying in bed, wishing you were here to play Simon Says with me.
- Eating an ice cream sundae right now and wishing it was you…
- Imagine you walk into your bedroom and see me on your bed… What would you do?
- Sometimes when I think about you I feel so out of control.
- I love it when you do [insert sensual act] to me.
- What do you prefer down below? Shaved? Trimmed? Au natural?
- Brrr… it’s cold. Would love to have something warm wrapped around my face and neck.
- What’s the naughtiest thought you’ve ever had about me? ]If you tell me yours, I’ll tell you mine.
- Dang, I just had a dream about you and you ROCKED my world. I bet you couldn’t do it again 😉
- I have a boxershort emergency. I need an expert STAT
- You have no idea how crazy you make me when you get turned on.
- Nothing turns me on more than thinking about you.
- I love the way you put your nails in my back when I’m on top of you.
- There’s something missing in my life… You want to know what? [She replies] You riding me.
- You’re so fucking hot.
- I want to be inside of you and hear you moan like nobody’s listening.
- I loved the way you did (BLANK) last night. It was soooo hot.
- Huh, it’s the weirdest thing. I can’t take off my boxers. Can you come over and do it for me?
- Just thinking what you’d look like on top of me. I really like what I see.
- Babe, I can’t concentrate at work because all I can think about is last night. I’m going to spank you for that.
- I want to see your o-face.
- I can’t fall asleep. All I can think about is what we’d be doing if you were here with me.
- Making love to you makes me so wild. It’s like we’re in our own world, away from the rest of humanity.
- Your skin, your smell, the way you wiggle your butt when I’m lying against you… You turn me on so much, babe.
- Your moans are the sexiest sound in the world.
- Tonight I’m going to bite you, slap you, and choke you until you’re shaking with pleasure.
- Call in sick tomorrow so we can spend all day fucking each other’s brains out.
- Can you do something for me? [Her reply] Imagine a hot scenario with me in it. Next time I see you I’m going to try and surpass it
Its psychologically irresistible to ignore. I call it the Clickbait-Opener. And I made a free video with screen-shot examples on how to use it.
Get it for free!How to use messages to get her in the mood – Texting guide
Just because you have an endless supply of awesome, sexy texts, doesn’t mean she’ll always get turned on by them. Even the best texts can turn her off if sent under the wrong circumstances.
So to make sure she gets excited and not replused, follow the next texting guidelines:
- Focus on suspense. The sexiest thing you can do is to build anticipation. Create a sense of desire without describing exactly what you want. A message as simple as, “Can’t wait to see you tonight” can be very arousing.
- Don’t overtext. Even when she’s into you, she doesn’t enjoy getting sex messages from you every day. Less is more.
- Know what she likes. What might be arousing to one person might seem really cringe to another. I recommend imitating her style of erotic texts (because that’s clearly what she likes).
- Don’t always expect good reactions. Just because your donger wants action doesn’t mean she’s in the mood for dirty texts or sexting. If you sense she’s not ready, let it go.
- Use emojis sparingly. Emojis have a bit of a childish vibe to them that can kill arousal. You can maybe get away with some as you get warmed up, but stay away from them once things get steamy.
- Don’t send too much. Until she’s excited, you want to keep your texts short and sweet. Let her decide when she wants more.
Before we wrap up today’s article, I want to give you two more gifts. Firstly, the 10 Texts That Always Work. Many of you reading this are probably still dating. Which means that you still have to watch your step. One wrong text could mean the end. That’s where the 10 Texts come in.
Do you ever catch yourself:
- Wishing you had a funny reply?
- Not knowing what to say?
- Unsure how to go for the date?
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And that’s not all, I still want to give you one last thing. The best opener I ever created. No other icebreaker even comes close to getting as many responses as this one.
Enjoy.
Blessings,
Louis Farfields
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