40+Best Tinder Icebreakers That Always Get A Response

Do girls never start a conversation with you unless they’re selling cookies?

Then it’s your responsibility to send the first text.

And starting today, that’ll be easy as pie if you use my Tinder icebreakers! Scroll down and you’ll get my best icebreakers that make a good first impression.

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Best Tinder icebreakers

Personalized openers are king. But sometimes a personalized opener is hard to pull off.

So here’s a list of texts that seem personal, but are actually canned lines. Very tricksy hehe.


  • Haha oh shit! Not sure if you remember [answer with a random but fun trivia fact].
  • Hey [her name]. Wanna know what I like about your profile?
  • Your photos make you seem really open and outgoing. But I bet that you also have moments where you’re a shy little nerd. 😉
  • If I were a T-rex I’d try to hold you in my little arms and cry because I couldn’t resist the tasty smell of human and ate you.
  • Hey HEY HeEeEe, [her name]! What’s cooking?
  • Your photo where [describe it] is the exact same look when I see the pizza delivery guy outside my door.
  • I was so stoked to talk with you but then my horoscope said that a girl dressed in [use her profile] would get me in trouble.
  • [If she has a dog] – Dang, you’re mega cute. And your 2-legged owner isn’t bad either I guess.
  • [If she’s into hiking] – Are you into hiking? So is my landlord. He’s been hiking my rent for a while… I’ll walk myself out.
  • [If she’s very adventurous] – Dang, [her name]. You’re like the female James Bond. Can’t wait to live out my dream of being a Bond Girl.
  • [If she’s a Harry Potter fan] – How did Harry Potter go down the hill? [Wait for her response] Jk… rolling.

Funny Tinder icebreakers

99% of girls say the same thing… a sense of humor is hawt.

So here come a bunch of first texts that instantly let her know you’ve got a big funny bone.

  • Two truths and a lie! I’ll go first. [Dated a billionaire, played on a TV show, I had sex with the daughter of a mafia boss]
  • How much does a polar bear weigh? [Wait for her response] No, they live on the ice. If they broke it, they wouldn’t live there!
  • Marry, fugg, kill: cookies, brownies and candy.
  • Tell me your Tinder experience in 1 GIF.
  • Mega important question. Would you rather be a squirrel in the sea or a crab in the woods?
  • What movie titles best describes your current love life?
  • Would you rather have sex with any person of your choosing once, or have a lifetime supply of garlic bread?
  • You have to ban one forever: ice cream or chocolate. What do you choose?
  • Before we start, know that I have the best cozy hoody and sweater collection. And if any of them go missing, I’m calling the police, [name].
  • [Name], I’m sorry I have to break it to you like this. But I want a divorce.
  • What’s your biggest weakness? Mine is that I don’t finish my…
  • I like couples massage. The best part is when the couple asks me why I’m there.
  • Are you a microwaved pizza roll? Because you’re hot, and I’m afraid to touch you.
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Witty Tinder icebreakers

Are you more of a brainy type guy? Then these next openers are probably more your speed.

  • We can make up any story about how we met. I like the idea of a meeting at a farmers market and we both reached for the last avocado.
  • Tell me what kinda guy you like. I’m trying to figure out who to pretend to be. #BeingYourselfIsForLosers
  • 👋✋✋. I’m using sign language because I’m in the quiet section of the library and I’m not rude.
  • Let’s check our compatibility. Tell me your zodiac sign, date of birth, and social security number.
  • If you had to recommend me one book, which one would you choose?
  • Congratulations! You have manifested a guy you can take home for Thanksgiving.
  • I don’t mean to show off, but my shoulder’s just the right size for your head.
  • If I could see your latest YouTube history, what would I see?
  • Pop quiz! What does a camel store in its hump [Hint: it’s not water]
  • I’m reducing my screen time but wanna talk to you. Should I use a carrier pigeon or see you in person?
  • Wanna see the difference between a match and a catch? Try lunch with me.
  • What’s something you’re proud of but never get a chance to talk about?
  • In a parallel universe, I’m married to you. In this on, I’m inviting you to start a secret society that will take over the world.
  • I like to take things slow, so I’ve picked the names of just five out of our 12 kids.
  • What’s the most creative excuse you’ve used to take a day off?

Flirty Tinder icebreakers

What’s Tinder without a little romance? The next messages show her that you have the courage to show your interest without being creepy.

  • I’m not hard to get, but I’m hard to forget. Wanna have a date worth remembering?
  • You’ve liked my profile, so that obviously means I should start making wedding plans.
  • Apart from great taste in men, what other qualities do you have?
  • I have trouble selecting dessert. Wanna help me out by joining me for dinner?
  • Let’s skip the small talk and dive right into the flirting.
  • You small, me big. We make good fit.
  • I can flirt with you in three languages: American, British, and Australian.
  • Matches made in heaven are too boring. Let’s be a duo made in hell 😈.
  • I just saw a scary movie and I need a hug 🙁
  • I don’t usually give compliments to people I meet right away, but you have excellent taste in men 👌

The best first text of all

That’s plenty of material to destroy ice in all sorts of ways.

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