5 Steps To Get A Threesome on Tinder (+Screenshots!)

How sweet would it be to have a Tinder threesome ASAP?

I’ve discovered a 5 step plan to get more threesomes than I have energy for.

And on this page, I’ll share those 5 steps with you.

This is what you get:

  • The best app specifically for threesomes and how to use it
  • How to set up a Tinder profile for threesomes
  • The CAT-formula that makes girls impatient to meet you
  • An example profile text used by a TextGod student (who is no longer a threesome virgin)
  • How to arrange threesome without giving away your identity
  • How to arouse a girl over text (the non-creepy way)
  • And much more…

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Finding the perfect match for an FFM (female female male) Tinder threesome is easier than you think. It takes a well-thought-out profile and a few texting guidelines. All of which you will get in this 5 step guide to arranging a Tinder threesome.  

Before you start

The tips in this article require you to have a girlfriend or a friend with benefits.

If you don’t have either at this point, then I suggest you go get a FWB first.

If you don’t have anyone at this point but still want to know the tricks of the trade, then by all means, buckle up and read ahead!

Why do so many couples try to find a threesome through Tinder?

Let’s not waste time on bullshit and cut straight to the chase.

Here are the advantages and disadvantages of using Tinder for threesomes.

  • No awkward situations with people you might run into again
  • When there’s no click during the date, you don’t have to reject a friend or acquaintance
  • Finding a stranger for a threesome in real life often requires long nights of going out
  • Asking for a threesome in real life is easily awkward
  • A rejection of your threesome proposal on Tinder will feel less harsh

Of course, there are also some downsides:

  • People might screenshot your profile (although there are ways to use Tinder anonymously)
  • It’s harder to decide if someone is a good candidate just based on pictures and text
  • There’s some competition when it comes to male profiles who are looking for a threesome (but you’ll beat the competition with the following tips!)

Is there a Tinder dating app specifically for threesomes?

Is Tinder the best dating app when it comes to getting a threesome? Or are there alternative apps that are even better?

Let’s find out right now!

3rder

An app just for threesomes that uses verified profiles. Sounds too good to be true?

Do you see all those 5-star feedbacks? At the time of writing this, there are about 10000 enthusiastic reviews!

Let’s see exactly why people are going wild about this app.

Let me fix my last sentence:

Let’s see why people bots are going wild about this app.

Looks like 3rder fixed a ton of bot-generated comments. Bots that are poorly programmed and make horrible sentences.

I can also tell these reviews are 100% fake because they force marketing keywords into their texts. This way when guys like you search for “tinder alternative” in Google Play or Apple Store, you’ll find their app.

But if I filter the reviews to ‘recommended’ then I can see the reviews that most people agreed with.

And then we land on these more honest critiques:

Real reviews. From actual people who tried the app.

Long story short: you can’t text anyone without paying.

This isn’t a unique story.

Every threesome app out there seems to get most people complaining.

Either everything is a paid feature, there aren’t enough profiles, or the app is just full of bugs.

So let’s look at an app that wasn’t designed for threesomes, but actually works to get threesomes.

Good ol’ Tinder <3

Step 1: Tinder profile for threesomes

The perfect Tinder profile for threesomes doesn’t exi-

Jokes aside, let’s build you a Tinder profile that locks down more threesomes than Sasha Grey in her prime.

There’s multiple ways of building a profile like this.

And I’ll give you one of the better ones.

Male or female profile?

Before you can start building your profile, you need to decide whether it’s going to be YOUR or HER profile.

Since most people reading this article will be guys with a girl looking for an extra girl, this is what we’ll focus on here.

A Tinder profile to find one extra girl for an FFM threesome.

In this case, a male profile is your best choice.

Here’s the logic:

A male profile gets to see female profiles.

Your second option would be a female profile set to seeing girls. But this way you’ll only get lesbian or bisexual girls. And miss out on the ocean of straight girls with an FFM fantasy.

This way you’ll have the biggest reach. And reach is what you’ll need when you’re on a mission for something as specific as an FFM threesome.

Holy Tip:

When creating a MALE profile to get FFM threesomes, you have the biggest reach. Obviously, most of the women coming across your profile are just looking for one guy to meet. Whether it be casual or for a serious relationship. However, it’s not because they aren’t actively looking for a threesome, that they don’t want one when the opportunity presents itself. Just like when you go to the supermarket for milk and come back with a chocolate bar.

A well-done profile opens many doors.

So let’s look at the most important detail of that profile:

A crucial detail of your profile pic

As with ANY kind of profile, your first photo decides at least 69% of your Tinder success.

So what do you do?

Show yourself in the first photo?

Your girl?

Both of you at once?

I’m a big fan of not beating around the bush.

And not a fan of baiting someone.

You could start off with a photo of just yourself. But most girls will first think you’re a normal profile then. Suddenly another girl pops up and it’s about threesomes.

Too many guys on Tinder are secretly looking for threesomes.

You could start off with a photo of your girl. This way your match instantly knows something’s up. When she sees you in the other photos, she’ll get an idea of what’s going on.

Or… you could start with a tactful photo of you and your girl TOGETHER. This paired with your bio makes the intent of your profile very clear very fast.

You’re not wasting anyone’s time. They’re not interested? Fine, they can swipe left in the blink of an eye.

Their interest is piqued?

Perfect.

They can look at more photos or just swipe right.

Rest of the profile

There are two possible reasons for someone to watch the rest of your profile.

  1. They are not interested in a threesome but are curious to see what you and your girls look like.
  2. They are at least a little interested in a threesome. And the rest of your profile will decide whether they yay or nay you.

The rest of your profile wants to convey three attractive qualities:

  • Comfort
  • Attractiveness
  • Trustworthiness

Let’s start with Attractiveness:

No, you don’t need to be a Milan fashion week catwalk model. But you need to be attractive. This can mean two things:

  1. Physically attractive. If you never work out and have enough kcal stored around your hips to outlast anyone else during a zombie apocalypse, then you’re making things hard on yourself. If you’re living a healthy lifestyle, then a tasteful body shot together with your girl can work wonders.
  2. Attractive through your skills or offer. Got a specific scenario in mind that might be very appealing to your match? Share it.

Trustworthiness: No person in his or her right mind will be down for a threesome with people they don’t trust. Trust is a huge factor for any normal Tinder meetup. When a threesome is on the table (no pun intended), this comes into play even more (again, no pun intended).

Depending on your profile, this can be hard. Some people prefer not to show their face when hunting for a threeway. This takes away your option to smile (at the camera). Which is the easiest way to generate a good chunk of trust.

If you decide not to show any faces, then it’s crucial your photos are of high quality and not cheap or vulgar looking.

Comfort: Almost all comfort will come from your Tinder bio and your texts. More on your texts in a bit, let’s look at the bio first.

Threesome profile text

A Tinder profile text for threesomes differs from a normal profile text.

Just like any good bio, this one will also need to be lighthearted and fun. But it also needs to clarify what your profile is about.

Nothing less sexy than two people looking for a threesome but beating around the bush.

It indicates embarrassment. And being embarrassed about wanting a threesome isn’t attractive.

However, the opposite is also a turnoff: being overly clear about what you want, while ignoring all other things a bio should do:

Calm your tits, gurl.

It’s important you write your own bio and keep it authentic. Go over it with your girl and see if you both like it.

Here’s an example of one used by one of my best friends and his girl:

You like boys but you’re not against the idea of being with a girl? You’re a chill, open-minded person in general? Then let’s slurp some vino together.

This bio is friendly, laid back, to the point, funny, and it shows personality through his odd choice of words.

Step 2: Who to swipe

This step is simple… if you know the basics on swiping and the Tinder algorithm.

You swipe as you usually swipe. Respect authenticity and swipe organically. Don’t piss off the almighty hidden profile score.

Other than that, swipe left on all profiles like this:

And swipe right on profiles like this:

Note that the second girl is abroad.

In general, tourists, expats, or anyone temporarily abroad, is more likely to have a threesome.

Should things get awkward or messy, then they’ll be freed from the mess automatically once they go back home.

Step 3: What to say

In just 3 minutes you’ll know how to start a Tinder conversation and lead it towards a threesome.

I’m going to give you an easy to apply an approach that works.

First, you open with a PERSONALIZED clickbait opener.

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My advice for you is to just use the opener, not the follow-up texts. And instantly personalize the opener. Watch the video and this will make perfect sense.

Once she’s responded to your opener, you exchange light and fun texts 2-3 times.

The usual short, fun texts.

No interview questions about her work/family/day.

These couple of text exchanges will take off the edge and create comfort.

At this point, it’s time to get to business.

Step 4: Your threesome proposal (how to ask her)

It’s now time to address the threesome scenario.

And the key here is to be gentle about it.

Nobody is waiting for something like:

So about the threesome. My girlfriend and I really want to do this but it’s important that you do exactly as we say and blablabla…

Proper ways to introduce the topic, are lines like these:

Did you come across many profiles like ours?

Since you liked our profile, do you have any experience with threesomes?

Hey I liked that you swiped us right and want to see if we all get along.

Her reaction will speak volumes.

From experience, I can tell you that most women will react positively, but this doesn’t mean that you’re in.

Remember that tons of girls are interested in the fantasy and even in potentially executing the fantasy…

…BUT…

The closer the meetup comes, the higher the odds of her flaking.

When fantasy becomes reality, things can feel scary.

So let’s look at setting up the actual meetup!

Step 5: How to set up the date

You can chat excitedly with your potential second wifey all you want.

But if you actually want the Tinder threesome to happen, you’ll need to lock in a Tinder meetup.

Let’s look at a screenshot someone sent me:

Sometimes just asking is enough.

Wow, that was easy!

Setting up a Tinder threesome is easy as pie!

Stop dreaming! Back to reality.

Looking at the opener, this screenshot comes from a normal profile instead of a threesome profile.

The odds of this working, especially as fast as in this example, are pretty damn low.

Especially if you’re going to text stuff like “Lmao sweet!”, “lol”, and end every text with “haha”.

Here’s a more successful approach:

Once you’ve planted the threesome seed with the questions we discussed in the last tip, you take a step back.

Back to lighthearted banter.

Focus on just grabbing a drink together.

Your vibe should be this:

“Oh yeah a threesome, we’ll see if we feel like it when the time comes. Let’s start with cozy mojitos and daiquiris together.”

Take off the pressure.

Holy Tip:

If you upload good photos and stories to Instagram, then have her follow you there.

You doing fun things in your stories makes it easier for her to trust you.

She gets a better idea of who you are and grows more comfortable around you.

A student of mine uploads the most ridiculous Instagram stories where he makes an absolute fool of himself.

His threesome candidates always react positively to the stories. And eventually, they meet up.

All that matters now is having that click. That comfortable connection.

Propose her to meet up at a bar where you can all grab a drink together and have some laughs.

Choose a bar close to your place.

From there it’s easy to show your house and have another drink there.

Now I’m not going to tell you where to put your hands and what positions are best for you.

What I will tell you is that TextGod coach Dan does have a favorite way of starting his threesomes.

And that’s by giving his Tinder match a massage together with his girl.

Whatever happens after is up to you.

But if you’ve executed all steps correctly, it should involve a threesome.

Bonus tip 1: How to fix a threesome anonymously

You can use Tinder 100% anonymously.

Check out the quick video below to find out:

3 Ways to successfully use Tinder anonymously

How to make 100% sure that you’ll avoid family and colleagues on Tinder

The best and safest way to arrange dates without being spotted by people you know

Bonus Tip 2: How to turn a girl on over text

In this tip, I’ll give you a texting technique that will help you secure a Tinder threesome…

…by sexualizing the conversation.

By sexualizing the conversation the right way, your Tinder match will become more excited about meeting you.

But be careful.

The right way also happens to be the opposite of what 99% of men are doing.

Maybe because it requires some creativity and wit.

The most common mistake is to introduce sexuality in the conversation in a direct way.

Sentences that leave little to her imagination.

Think of atrocities like:

I want to fuck you hard and deep with my big dick.

Texts like these hardly ever have a place in texting.

They are a women-repellent when sent without her asking for it.

Instead, try to introduce sexuality by sending ambiguous texts:

Currently rushing towards the train station, it’s going to be tight!

I hope it’s not going to be too tight, otherwise, you’ll have to wait about an hour until we can go again.

I mean until you have your next train.

This is about as extreme as you’re allowed to go with someone you don’t know well yet.

Most of your sexualizing will be done more gently:

I’m craving some chocolate!

How did you know I am currently covered in chocolate?

It’s little things that make her laugh + have a sexual vibe.

Even if it’s just for a split-second, she will imagine you naked and covered in chocolate.

It’s a technique that requires some practice.

But trust me, once you master this, your life will never be the same again.

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Blessings,
Louis Farfields

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