69 Dirty Texts To Make Her Horny (Without Being Creepy)

If you found your way here, you want to turn on your special lady. Maybe it’s your Tinder match. Someone you’re dating. Or even your girlfriend. All good.

Because whatever your situation, I’m going to give you 69 dirty texts to get a woman wet and in the mood for you.

Depending on who you text and how close you are, you should send something else to get her hot and wet.

That’s why I split the article up by type of relationship. From a new Tinder match to your girlfriend or wife. Now, I do recommend reading them all. But keep in mind that your relationship determines how crazy you can go with your texts.

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10 Hot & Dirty Texts For Your Tinder Match

The relationship you have with a stranger you just met on the internet is incredibly fragile. That makes sense, right? She doesn’t know you. At this moment, all you are to her is a friendly face with some cool photos.

Send her something she isn’t ready for and she’ll likely unmatch you.

That’s why the next 10 texts for your Tinder match will be reasonably light on the ‘dirty’. And heavy on the flirty. That way you can send these irresistible texts without being seen as desperate or a creep.

Now how do things get hot and steamy after these ‘innocent’ lines? It’s a slow build-up. If she replies flirty, you go a slight bit further again.

Direct sexualizing with someone you only just met will rarely work.

Enough explaining, let’s start with the texts!

  • You’re so annoying 😘 [After she asks why] Because you’re slowly becoming another reason why I want the weekend to start. Copy line
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  • [After she compliments you] Be careful, Louisa. I’m starting to like you a little bit more but I have a feeling that you and I would be trouble. Copy line
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  • I saved this seat for you, where are you? [Photo of an empty chair / seat next to you] Copy line
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  • [After you watched a sad movie] Just watched Woody say goodbye to Buzz. I need a hug Copy line
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  • [When she sends you something funny] I just laughed so hard my roommate came into my room and asked me what video I was watching. Copy line
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  • So far texting you has been fun. Let’s see if you keep up the banter over the phone 😉 000-000-000 Copy line
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  • [When she says something you disagree with] That’s it we’re breaking up. Copy line
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  • Let’s play doctor. I’ll start. You owe me $3200. Copy line
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  • [After she compliments you] Not so quick with the compliments, Louisa. Not until after we’re married. Copy line
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  • [When she breaks your heart] That’s it… we’re getting a divorce. You take the kids and the house, I’ll take the dog and the porsche. Copy line
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20 Sexy Messages For Your Crush

The upcoming texts are not for a girl you just met, but for someone you’re really vibing and clicking with. And they’re especially good to send right before the date.

Then she’ll be filled with dirty thoughts right before she sees you. Let’s get right into it! And remember: you can break up these texts into smaller parts to make it look a little more chill.

  • I can still taste you on my lips. Copy line
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  • All day long I’ve been thinking of this super sexy babe… what should I do? Copy line
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  • Guess what’s on my mind and win a prize. Here’s a hint: it involves my mouth and your lips. Copy line
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  • What’s something you’ve always wanted to try in bed that you’ve never done? Copy line
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  • Lying in bed, wishing you were here to play Simon Says with me. Copy line
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  • [When she says something bad] Okay, you’re under arrest. Next time I see you I’m going to put you in handcuffs. Copy line
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  • Eating an ice cream sundae right now and wishing it was you… Copy line
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  • Imagine you walk into your bedroom and see me on your bed… What would you do? Copy line
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  • Had Spotify on random and it’s only playing naughty songs. I don’t think it’s a coincidence. 😉 Copy line
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  • I’m too shy to say it, but I wish you knew what I was thinking about right now. Copy line
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  • Sometimes when I think about you I feel so out of control. Copy line
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  • [When she’s coming over to your house] Before you come over tonight, it’s REALLY important you bring these 3 items. 200 grams of blueberries, an uncooked egg, and the sexiest lingerie you have. It’s all part of the recipe. Copy line
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  • I’m just lying in bed wearing nothing but my boxers. What are you up to? Copy line
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  • I’ve just had the most amazing shower. I had to tell you even though I’m still dripping wet. Copy line
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  • Tell me in 5 emojis what you want me to do to you tonight. Copy line
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  • I love it when you do [describe the sexy thing she does] to me. Copy line
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  • Don’t wear anything fancy tonight. Because I don’t think I can help myself from tearing your clothes off of you. Copy line
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  • Oops, I just spilled my breakfast all over me. Now my stomach and boxers are covered in cornflakes🎉 Copy line
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  • What do you prefer ‘down below’. Shaved? Trimmed? Au natural? Copy line
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  • Brrr… it’s cold. Would love to have something warm wrapped around my face and neck. Copy line
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20 Naughty Texts For Your Girlfriend

If you already loved the previous sexy texts, you’ll love these naughty messages.

Because these are for your girlfriend, a person you trust like no other, we can really amp up the dirty levels.

Ready for some extra hot texts for her? Here they come.

  • What’s the naughtiest thought you’ve ever had about me? If you tell me yours, I’ll tell you mine. Copy line
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  • Just came out of the shower and suddenly had to text this really sexy lady. I didn’t even have time to put on my clothes. Copy line
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  • Dang, I just had a dream about you and you ROCKED my world. I bet you couldn’t do it again 😉 Copy line
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  • Okay, be honest… Have I ever given you a wet dream? Copy line
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  • I want to get naked with you right now. Copy line
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  • Spare me checking you out on Instagram. I want an original. Copy line
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  • Nothing turns me on more than thinking about you. Copy line
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  • [When she’s out of town] I’m texting you with one hand… wish you were here. Copy line
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  • You have no idea how crazy you make me when you get turned on. Copy line
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  • I love the way you put your nails in my back when I’m on top of you. Copy line
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  • You’re so fucking hot. Copy line
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  • I want to be inside of you and hear you moan like nobody’s listening. Copy line
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  • Huh, it’s the weirdest thing. I can’t take off my boxers. Can you come over and do it for me? Copy line
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  • I loved the way you did [BLANK] last night. It was soooo hot. Copy line
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  • I can’t stop looking at the pictures you sent me. You make me so so hard, babe. Copy line
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  • Just thinking what you’d look like on top of me. I really like what I see. Copy line
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  • Babe, I can’t concentrate at work because all I can think about is last night. I’m going to spank you for that. Copy line
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  • I miss the feeling of your curves pushed into my body. Copy line
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  • There’s something missing in my life… You want to know what? [Wait for her response] You riding me. Copy line
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  • I want to grab your hair and push your face into the floor while I fuck you from behind. Copy line
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19 Naughty Texts For When You’re Both Crazy In Love

If you’re in love, you can add another twist to your dirty texts.

You can still fill them with all kinds of dirty talk, naughty images, and all things erotic. But it’s also a good idea to sprinkle your sexy texts with a little love.

That way your hot text will be even more powerful and arousing to her.

  • O. My. God. I want you so badly right now. Every fiber of my body is telling me that it wants to be pressed against you. Copy line
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  • I love you so much. Your skin, your smell, the way you wiggle your butt when I’m lying against you… You turn me on so much, babe. Copy line
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  • I can’t fall asleep. I can’t stop thinking about what we’d be doing if you were here with me. Copy line
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  • The way I feel when you kiss me is so intense. It’s like electricity running through my body. Copy line
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  • Making love to you makes me so wild. It’s like we’re in our own world, away from the rest of humanity. Copy line
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  • I’ve never felt this way about anymore before. I just want to give everything of myself to you… my body, my spirit, my soul… everything. Copy line
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  • Your moans are the sexiest sound in the world. Copy line
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  • Everywhere we go, you’re the sexiest woman in the room. Copy line
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  • Babe, you make me so wild. Next time I see you, I’m going to show you what real love is. Copy line
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  • I just want to feel you pressed up against me while I thrust deep inside of you. Pulling on your hair to make you moan and staring deeply into your eyes until we both cum. Copy line
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  • My dick is actually sore after last night. Now every step reminds me how awesome you are. Copy line
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  • Tonight I’m going to bite you, slap you, and choke you until you’re shaking with pleasure. Copy line
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  • I’m going to fuck you so hard that you’re going to need a wheelchair tomorrow. Copy line
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  • I’m going to slowly caress your lips with my own. Then nibble on your neck. Making my way down to your firm juicy breasts… your stomach… all the way down to your pussy. But I’m not going to take you into my mouth. I’m going to keep licking and kissing all around until you beg me for more. Copy line
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  • Call in sick tomorrow so we can spend all day fucking each other’s brains out. Copy line
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  • Did you know that 50 Cent’s famous line ‘I love you like a fat kid loves cake’ was actually based on us? Copy line
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  • I have a mission for you. Imagine a hot scenario with me in it. Next time I see you, I’m going to try and surpass it. Copy line
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  • Next time I see you I’m going to show you how much I love you. In a very physical way. Copy line
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  • I love how aroused I get from thinking of you. Copy line
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3 Safe ways to sexualize your chats

Dirty texts have different degrees of eroticism. Messages can range from suggestive to obscene. And whether she’ll enjoy your dirty text depends on how close you are to her.

The closer you are, the dirtier your texts can be. The less you know her, the safer your texts have to be.

Because it can be difficult to navigate these nuanced waters, I want to give you the 3 safest ways to arouse any woman over text.

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4 Steps to send dirty texts the right way (and get her in the mood)

Lines to her in the mood are great. But here’s something crucial: in general, what arouses women is quite different than what arouses men.

Direct sexual lines don’t work with women. She’s not all of a sudden turned on by the unexpected dirty line.

Turning her on works more like a volume button then an on/off-switch.

Of course, there are exceptions. Especially if you’re already in a relationship and you have a very active sex life. She might enjoy the occasional direct approach.

In all other cases, follow these steps:

1. Choose the right moment

Too many guys start sending dirty texts at the worst possible moment.

Here are some bad moments to start spicing things up:

  • When your conversation is almost dead.
  • When you’re in the midst of a serious conversation.
  • If you’re not flirty together, and rather completely friendly.
  • When you don’t know each other at all yet (the first few minutes of your Tinder convo for example).

This is the right time to start getting nasty through text:

  • After exchanging a couple of fun and flirty messages. Amid a fun conversation.

2. Start with something subtle or a sexual innuendo

The best start is to let the sexual vibe happen almost ‘accidentally’.

A great way to do this is by using a sexual innuendo. A remark that is harmless, but can also be interpreted in a more sexual way.

After sending the message, you can send a second message revealing the ‘accidental’ sexual interpretation in a flirty way.

Examples:

  • Want to get a coffee? Gotta love some good grabbin’
  • Are you giving just the tip?
  • We need to go deeper
  • Things are getting hard

Using these in a normal context and then playing with them is a great way to start a sexual conversation.

If you are already having sex, for example when you’re dating or in a relationship, you can be slightly more explicit. Like the sexy messages for your crush you read above.

  • All day long I’ve been thinking of this super sexy babe… what should I do?
  • Guess what’s on my mind and win a prize. Here’s a hint: it involves my mouth and your lips.
  • What’s something you’ve always wanted to try in bed that you’ve never done?

3. See if she takes the bait

Spicing up the conversation is a two-way street. You can’t do it alone. Or you’ll turn into a creep.

So see if she laughs and also engages in ‘play’.

Basically, you’re looking for positive signals, for a green light, before you continue.

Her laughing is one sign. But you should still be careful.

Her playing along is a stronger sign you can continue.

4. Slowly start increasing the temperature of your texts

If she enjoys your texts and reciprocates them, you can become slightly more direct.

Does she like it? Then increase the temperature even more.

Remember, getting her in the mood is all about suggesting things and being subtle.

And it’s an exchange where you both tease and challenge each other.

How to make her fall in love with you by sending sex messages

If you’re already dating and the two of you clearly like each other,  dirty texts can be an incredibly powerful way to make her fall deeply in love with you.

And that’s because dirty texts can be incredibly romantic. They remind her you can’t resist her. They show her what you love about her. And, if you do it right, they express that she’s the only one that makes you feel this way.

If she’s already developing feelings for you, the right dirty text can make her pussy wet and her heart melt.

However, to really get her to fall in love, you need to understand the 4 ingredients of falling in love:

  • Surface attraction: Does she feel physically attracted to you
  • Deep attraction: Does she admire you and your life
  • Surface connection: Do you have a fun time together
  • Deep connection: Does she feel she can open up and you really understand her

Successfully sexting or getting her in the mood shows surface attraction and connection. That’s great and the first step.

However, to get her to fall in love, she also has to admire you for who you are and what you do.

And you have to create that deeper emotional connection where you’re vulnerable and she feels understood.

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