If you found your way here, you want to turn on your special lady.
Maybe it’s your Tinder match. Someone you’re dating. Or even your girlfriend.
Because whatever your situation, I’m going to give you 69 dirty texts to get a woman hooked on you.
- 10 Best flirty lines to get her ready for more naughty texts
- 20 Sexy messages to send to your crush and get her excited about the date
- 20 Naughty texts for your girlfriend to make you even more attractive
- 19 Hot texts for the person you love to create an even deeper connection
- And more…
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What you must know about dirty texts (important)
While a minority, I do always get emails from people who ask me something like this:
“Hey, Louis. I have a date in a few days, what can I text her to make her absolutely crazy for me?”
“Hey, Louis! I’ve got a number of this really hot Tinder match. Is there something I can send to make her send me some extra spicy pics?”
I bet you’re smart enough to have some idea of what’s wrong here:
These people are wanting a miracle text.
A magical incantation that will turn anyone who reads it weak in the knees for you.
The one line to nude them all.
If you came here looking for something like that, I have to give you some bad news…
…that magic text doesn’t exist.
People don’t fall head over heels after reading one message.
It takes a bunch of messages just to become a little attracted to you.
Love and ravenous lust is on a totally different level.
So what can you expect from today’s article?
69 texts that will make her more attracted to you than she was a moment ago.
That could mean going from ‘just’ a match to her favorite Tinder match. Or from ‘interesting guy’ to the guy who gets to see her in special underwear.
A few steamy texts can even breathe new life into a dying relationship.
In short, these dirty texts will make you more attractive to her.
They’re not miracles, but they do get you closer to where you want to be.
Before we get into it, know that I’ve divided the texts up into different categories:
- For your Tinder match (or any other dating app match)
- For your real life crush
- For your girlfriend
- For when you’re in love
Why all these categories?
Because you always send naughty texts in accordance with how close you are to her.
The closer you are, the dirtier your texts can be. And vice versa.
10 Hot & Dirty Texts For Your Tinder Match
Before you send anything to someone you met on Tinder (or another dating app), you must know this:
The relationship you have with a stranger you just met on the internet is… fragile.
Which makes sense.
Right after matching, she has little reason to be interested in you. All she has is your photos, bio and maybe some prompts.
So at this moment, all you are to her is some hair, a smile, and a t-shirt that makes your eyes pop.
Send her the wrong text now and she isn’t likely to be forgiving.
A bad text may mean she never answers you again.
That’s why the next 10 texts for your Tinder match will be reasonably light on the ‘dirty’.
And heavy on the flirty.
That way you can send these irresistible texts without being seen as desperate or a creep.
Enough explaining, let’s start with the texts!
#1: Tease her a little
If you’re already had a few back and forths with your Tinder match and she’s clearly interested…
…it’s time to flirt a little.
If you can’t tell if she’s interested, check out these 19 signs that tell if a girl likes you over text.
Anyway, if you know she likes you this is a great flirty text to send:
It’s sweet and playful. Plus, it shows that you’re mature because the lockdown isn’t just a joke to you.
Reading this post lockdown? Say: “ […] another reason why I want the weekend to start.”
#2: When she compliments you
A great time to flirt is when a woman compliments you.
Which sounds pretty DUH. But I don’t mean to just send her a compliment right back.
That’s just sticking feathers up each other’s butts.
A far better response to her compliment would be:
Nobody really knows what trouble means.
But because it’s so ambiguous it has a sexy element to it.
#3: Send her a flirty photo
The next text is super flirty and playful.
The next time you’re outside having a coffee with friends, or when you’re at home watching a movie, take a photo of the empty seat next to you.
And send it to her together with the text:
Which is an especially funny text if it’s out of the blue.
The best thing?
If she’s available and likes you, she may pop on over.
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Now for the next dirty text.
#4: Send her a flirty photo
If you’re a movie buff, you’ll love the next text.
Don’t worry, it works well if you like series too.
Imagine you’re watching a very sad film or one of Pixar’s many tearjerkers.
And you’re feeling a bit bummed.
Which is a great excuse to send her this:
It’s flirty but not over the top.
#5-6: Give her a compliment
Girls love to get texts like the one I’m about to give you.
Suppose she just said something really funny.
Send her this:
Maybe she didn’t send you a knee-slapper, but she’s just fun to chat with.
In that case, send her this:
#7-8: Show you’re confident
It shouldn’t be a surprise to you that women love confident men.
If that’s news to you, well… surprise!
Anyway, if women find confidence sexy, that’s definitely something you want to show her you have.
Suppose she gives you a compliment, like so:
WARNING: Don’t send this hours after she sends you the compliment. The cocky answer works best when you’re in a quick back and forth.
Do you want to send her a sexy text that she’ll love to get at all times?
Go with this:
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Which also has copy-pastable lines for when you don’t know what to say.
#9: Be a little hard to get
It wouldn’t surprise me that if you send her one of these texts that she’ll start flirting back.
Similar to what happened to a client of mine who’s part of the TextGod Mentoring Program.
If you ever find yourself in a similar convo as the one above and get a compliment…
Play a bit hard to get.
And send her something like this:
It’s playful. It’s flirty. It’s fun.
#10: When she says something you didn’t like
Up next is a great flirt for Tinder.
Suppose she says something you don’t like.
How do you respond?
Like a master flirt would, of course:
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Only because you asked so nice:
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20 Sexy Messages For Your Crush
The upcoming texts are not for a girl you just met, but for someone you’re really vibing and clicking with.
And they’re especially good to send right before the date.
Then she’ll be filled with dirty thoughts right before she sees you.
Let’s get right into it!
#11: When she says something bad
#12: When you’re already planning to see her
If you have a date planned for this evening, send her this in the morning:
#13: When the date’s set
#14: After you had a wild night
#15: Invite her to play along
#16: Give her a riddle
#17: Be curious
#18: Be playful
#19: Be suggestive
#20: Let her imagination run wild
#21: Let music inspire you
#22: The shy guy text
#23: She makes you lose it
Telling a woman she’s so hot that you lose control is one of THE biggest turn ons for her, because it means she has a power that you can’t resist.
A major ego booster.
#24: Peak her curiosity
#25: Give her the chance to get dirty with you
#26: Emojis are your friend
#27: Ask and you shall receive
#28: The brain is the strongest erogenous zone of the body
#29: Get her opinion
#30: See if she gets the hint
20 Naughty Texts For Your Girlfriend
If you already loved the previous sexy texts, you’ll love these naughty messages.
Because these are for your girlfriend, a person you trust like no other, we can really amp up the dirty levels.
Ready for some extra hot texts for her?
Here they come.
#31: Ask her a naughty question
#32: Paint her a picture
#33: Give her a challenge
#34: The ego boost
#35: Be direct
#36: Demand some nudes
With a bit of luck, she’ll give you one of these.
Or perhaps something even better.
#37: Remind her how sexy she is
#38: Tag in your girl when you’re horny
#39: She just makes you lose control
#40: Tell her what you love
#41: Tell her what you’d like to happen
Wait for her response and then hit her with this one:
Her getting ready to come over to your place.
#42: A crazy hot compliment
#43: Use descriptive language
#44: Pretend like you’re in trouble
#45: Remind her that she’s good at sex
#46: The message Tinder matches hate, but girlfriends love
#47: You’re having dirty thoughts
#48: You can’t focus
#49: The “I can’t stop myself”
#50: The simple sexy text
19 Naughty Texts For When You’re Both Crazy In Love
If you’re in love, you can add another twist to your dirty texts.
You can still fill them with all kinds of dirty talk, naughty images and all things erotic.
But it’s also a good idea to sprinkle your sexy texts with a little love.
That way your hot text will be even more powerful and arousing to her.
#51: Your body is screaming for her
#52: It’s just too much
#53: You can’t get any sleep
#54: Her lips are electric
#55: She takes you to another planet
#56: She is the one and only for you
I feel like I’ve said this plenty of times during this article, but I’ll say it once more:
Make sure these texts are in line with your connection to the girl.
Send the above text to someone that isn’t 200% in love with you, and she’ll run for the hills REAL QUICK.
#57: Your favorite sound
#58: No other woman like her
#59: The loving warning
#60: The x-rated
#61: The funny and complimentary
#62: The raunchy
#63: The classic
#64: The descriptive
#65: Can’t you be my job?
#66: We going old school
#67: The challenge
#68: You like to keep it physical
#69: She’s the best fantasy
That was number 69 and the last of our dirty texts for her, but…
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