Online Dating Coach
Louis Farfields
Mar 30, 2025
So you want to send some pictures to your crush to spark more attraction.
But you’re not sure what to send.
Worry not, you’re in the right place.
Because I’m about to give you 30 amazing pictures to send to anyone to get their attention.
In this article:More...Why you want to send pictures to your crush
Pictures should be an essential part of your texting routine. Here’s why:
- There’s a picture for every mood.
- It adds much-needed variety to a text-based conversation.
- Pictures create a light and playful vibe.
There are no real downsides to sending photos over text. Unless, of course, your photos are cringe (No weener pics or normie memes allowed).
But since you’re here, you don’t need to worry about embarrassing yourself. Take inspiration from the next tips and let me make your crush like you more.
What kind of photos do you want to send to your crush?
Since the goal is to seduce the person you’re interested in, you don’t just want to send any old photo to your crush.
You want your photos to highlight your strongest qualities. Perhaps your sense of humor or your adventurous lifestyle, or maybe even your close relationship with your sweet, sweet grandma.
Every photo is like another puzzle piece of your personality.
That’s why you want to make sure she gets a balanced view of what you’re like.
Even better, you want to show her just how unique you really are. And there’s no better way to do that than by combining two traits that are on opposite sides of the spectrum. Like a photo of you playing with a dog (kindness) and a photo of you boxing a heavy bag with your fists (aggression).
Or a photo of your latest book purchase (intelligence) and then a picture of you wearing face paint (playful).
It’s incredibly sexy when you can do both.
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Get them for free!How often should you send photos to your crush?
Pay attention to how often you send photos.
You want her to see photos as a special treat, not something she gets every day.
It’s exciting because getting a cool photo is something more rare than a traditional text. That’s why you want to send photos sparingly.
Depending on how often you text, I recommend a rough guideline of no more than 1 photo for every 20 text messages.
(Maybe 2 if you’re more advanced.)
That way, when your crush gets a photo, it always feels fresh, unique, and special.
Its psychologically irresistible to ignore. I call it the Clickbait-Opener. And I made a free video with screen-shot examples on how to use it.
Get it for free!The best photos to send your crush
Here are 30 top tier examples of ideas for photos you can send to your crush that can spark attraction.
1. Send a photo of what you’re up to
When texting your crush, you’ll often get asked “What are you up to?”
Which is great, because it’s an easy way to quickly send a photo showing exactly that, making your texting more exciting.
As long as you’re living a somewhat interesting life.
Some examples of what you could be up to would be:
Chilling on a rooftop
About to enjoy the views on the rooftop 😎
Day at the beach
Tryna’ tan my toesies
Feeding some horses
What a good boy
There are many things you could send your crush here, get creative with it! And go out and live your life so you have actual photos to send.
2. Remind her that you know her a little
Show your crush that you paid attention by sending a photo that is relevant to her interests.
A photo of a type of puppy she loves
Isn’t this the type of rat dog you love?
A pic from an artist she’s really into
Thought you’d like this
A photo of her favorite musician’s poster
They’re playing in town soon!
A food she loves
Drooling already, we need to make this
Holy Tip:
It’s great to send a little text along with the pictures you send, like what I’m writing in Italics below each picture.
It adds more context and clarity to the photo.
And ensures the photos never seem random (very important).
Not sure what your crush’s interests are but still want to have some fun texting?
Check out my article here.
● How to text your crush: The ultimate guide
3. Send a playful selfie
Selfies can be a great picture to send to your crush.
But be careful!
Although women generally like to show off their looks when sending their crush a picture, we don’t want to do that. Rather than trying to be seductive, us guys are typically better off being humorous.
Here are some examples of good selfies to send that aren’t focusing on being sexy.
Photo of you trying a face mask
Feeling cute
Photo of you wearing a festive costume
I am now in your nightmares
Photo of you wearing a super dumb outfit with the caption, “Sexy? Y or N?”
Sexy? Y or N?
4. Express your personal side
Personalized unique photos create more connection with your crush.
A personalized photo isn’t going to be something that you send to just everyone. You’d only give them to someone a little bit closer to you.
A photo of your new League of Legends promotion
How’s it feel knowing a professional athlete?
A photo of your latest batch of red velvet cookies
Guess who’s been cheffin’
Just remember to always personalize these pictures. They should feel slightly more special to send than usual.
For more ways to make her feel special, check out my youtube video on that exact subject.
7 Ways To Make Her Feel Special Through Text
5. Remind her of an inside joke
Inside jokes are great photos to send.
When you can send a photo of an inside joke to your crush, it shows you’re paying attention and creates a fun narrative between just the two of you.
Like it’s you and her against the world.
Here are some examples:
You two have an inside joke about ‘spooning’
LOOK AT THE SIZE OF THIS MONSTER
Inside joke about owners that look like their pets
Saw this on reddit and had to send it lolololol
Inside joke about ugly homes being nice
There’s just so much room for activities!
Now, these aren’t the easiest to come up with as inside jokes are always going to be personalized. But when they work, they REALLY work.
6. Let her see your friends
A picture with friends can help show you have a life and that you’re a well rounded, fun person to be with. It could be a photo of doing something cool to elevate your status.
Or something silly that shows you that you know how to always have fun.
Hiking with the lads
Hike with the homies was wholesome
Random photo taking
Insert Vin Diesel saying, “Family”
Selfie at a restaurant/event
Potluck with friends!
7. Give her a homemade meme
You have to get a bit creative here to send this type of photo.
But you can send a ‘memed up’ version of a picture to add some flavor to your conversation.
Like this:
A selfie where you look disappointed or upset
Roommates are arguing about how to load the dishwasher. Send help
A selfie of you waiting at the airport
Me when they hold eye contact while frisking me at the airport
A classic spongebob meme
This is how I felt after I walked into the office after my workout this morning
8. Suggest a date
Here are some fun ways to suggest a date while sending her a picture.
Your photos don’t have to be serious either, they can be done playfully as well.
Even better, you can send a photo AND a short text to add context to the picture you’re sending when asking them out.
Here’s what I mean:
Photo of you chilling in the grass
It’s so nice here. This is my new home now. Bring me a housewarming gift
Photo of you wrapped up in a blanket on the coach
About to binge the new X-Men. Will be here for the next 2 days. You’re welcome to join if you bring some nachos
Photo of menu items that you saw
Let’s get this asap, I’m starvvvvinnngggggg
Photo of an activity you’d like to do
100% need to do this at the fair soon. I won’t judge if you pee yourself a little from fear either
There are a lot of options you can do when sending a photo that hints at a date.
But if you need any more ideas, read my article below for more great date ideas.
● 23 First Tinder Date Tips to Make a Fantastic Impression
9. Flex on them
Here are some photos that will actually make you seem more cool or high value when you send them.
They’re also useful to balance out any playful/silly vibes you’ve been giving so far.
Now, everything in moderation of course, don’t go overboard spamming these. But once in a while you can send something less humble.
Photo of you in another city/country
I’ll give you 20 guesses to guess where I am
Photo of you finishing a sick gym workout (do keep in mind that you’re sending mega fuckboi vibes)
Objectifying myself because I believe in equality
Photo of a crazy yummy looking dessert with caption
You jelly yet? Can share if you come within the next 17 seconds
Photo of you doing something unique, like a cat coffee shop
IT’S A CAT CAFE!! So excited
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Get it for free!Pics to send to your crush – Conclusion
Photos can be really powerful to send to your crush to make your conversations more interesting.
You can say so much with so little effort by using a photo. And it can be a lot more fun and interesting to send a photo instead of just texting what you’re doing or what you want your crush to know.
Now, sending photos isn’t the only powerful tool out there to spark attractive text conversations.
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A collection of my best techniques, lines, and methods to build a dynamite profile and get women excited to see you.
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Enjoy.
Blessings,
Louis Farfields
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