You’re on Tinder and it’s been a while since you sent your last message.
And you also got nothing back.
“Did she read my text? And what should I do now to fix the convo?”
No worries, my friend.
You’re about to get the most powerful Tinder follow-up messages for a non-response.
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What to do in case of a non-response
When you the attention of your Tinder match slipping away, your first reaction should be to chill.
Trust that they like you.
They’re probably busy. So give them a chance to reply on their own time.
“But Louis, I’m not that confident if my conversational skills made them like me.”
Well if that’s the case, I recommend you watch my video on 7 secrets to text and flirt with any girl over text. That way girls won’t ever knowingly ignore you again:
How to get her excited to text you
From the moment you send the first text, your goal should to be make her excited to get to know you.
Here are the best ways to do that:
- Take some risk. By playing it safe, you’ll probably be having the same conversation with her that she’s had with every other guy. Buzzkill.
- Bypass the small talk. You want to inspire her to be personal and open up. The best way to do that is to give her what you want to get.
- Treat her like an old friend. If you pretend she’s someone you knew from a while ago, you’ll feel more comfortable being weird, goofy and playful. Perfect.
Now you’re being someone fun who she’s interested in meeting up with. She won’t ignore your texts now, she’ll be looking forward to them.
1. A follow-up message for when she doesn’t reply
As tough as it is to hear, sometimes the reason a girl ignores you is because of YOU.
Sure, she probably could have answered something.
But you must understand where she’s coming from: she probably has a legion of dudes talking to themselves in her inbox.
So her patience for shitty texts is incredibly low.
For some ladies, it’s one strike and you’re out.
That’s not impolite, it’s common sense. She just doesn’t have the time.
Anyway, back to you. There are lots of ways to mess up a Tinder conversation.
The most common texts that sabotage a convo are:
- Familiar and boring.
- Confusing.
- Rude.
Does your last text fall into any of these last three categories?
Then you want to own up to your mistake and move on to a new topic.
Here is a one-size-fits-all-phuck-ups text:
Obviously don’t talk about stir fries and cooking if that’s not your thing. It pays to be authentic.
After all, she’s going to meet you on the date, not the mega super awesome guy who you steal all your Tinder lines from.
So tailor these and all other copied lines to your own life.
2. A follow-up message for when you made no mistakes
Sounds crazy, right?
Why would a girl ignore your last text if you made no mistakes?
Simple.
She’s busy, gorgeous, and can make every nerd run out of his fapbunker with one command.
That said, it doesn’t have to be over.
Beautiful girls still have needs that only the coolest dudes can fulfill.
And if you made no texting mistakes, you’re up there brother. She probably just lost you in the shuffle.
So how do you follow up your last text in this case?
Playfully remind her she’s left you on read.
Like so:
Obviously don’t blindly copy the above line if she’s not called Sarah.
What makes this follow-up text so good?
- It’s cocky.
- It implies that she’s the one who’s trying to seduce you.
- It’s challenging but innocent.
IMPORTANT: This text does NOT work if your last text was bad or generic. Undeserved confidence feels fake, like you’re pretending to be someone you’re not.
Not sure if you made no mistakes? Check your convo for signs of interest. If you made no mistakes it should be loaded with positive signals.
If you can’t recognize them, check out this article:
3. A follow-up message for when she’s been unattentive
I’m going to tell you something that might shock you.
Even if you do everything right, that’s no guarantee that you’ll get the girl.
Yep. I wish it were true, but that’s not how women work.
People just aren’t that predictable.
So sometimes you’ll be sending great texts that would make most girls swoon, but do nothing for this one Tinder match.
She may reply. But as the convo goes on you notice that her attention is waning.
What do you follow up with if she eventually ignores your text?
You didn’t really make a mistake, but you didn’t do well either. Which gives you little guidance on what to do next.
That’s why I’m here.
In the cases where a woman doesn’t really ever bite, there’s only one thing you can do.
Playfully call her out for being a bad texter.
It sounds risky, but it’s the only real option you have. Because if you never show her that she has to speak up, she’ll keep sending you 3-word texts until she eventually sends you nothing.
After all, she’s not going to develop any respect or feelings for someone who she can entertain with a few conversational crumbs.
That’s why you want to call her out with the next text:
Get her addicted to your follow-up messages
These are the 3 follow-up messages for a non-response.
These texts should get the convo going again, which means it’s time to lead her toward the date.
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Blessings,
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