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70+ Questions To Ask Your Crush Over Text

You have a crush you want to make yours.

The problem is that you don’t know where to start.

“How do I make her like me?”

Although there are countless ways to win her over…

Today, we’ll discuss questions to ask your crush over text.

Continue and get:

  • 70+ Questions to ask your crush
  • 30 Questions to keep it light and fun
  • 13 Questions that wet her panties
  • 15 Questions that build connection
  • 4 Questions to find out she likes you
  • Much more…

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#1-10: Questions that make her like you

You don’t need a lot to impress your crush, the next 10 questions will help you spark attraction.

What are you most proud of?

Everyone likes to talk about their achievements.

What does barely anyone know about you, that you wish more people would?

Another question that lets her level up her reputation. WIN!

What’s the worst date you’ve ever been on?

It shows you what to avoid and also makes for a good inside joke.

“He started the date by giving me a bouquet of roses.”

It would obviously be hilarious if you start your date by handing her a rose and say, “M’lady…”

What was the last time you cried and why?

She could have been brought to tears by a movie, a joke, a sad event, or even a sunrise. Any answer gives you a peek into her life.

What’s your biggest turn on and why?

Makes the conversation sexual. Plus, her answer tells you EXACTLY what to work on.

“I like black guys.”

*orders a flight to the Sun*

Would you prefer to end a good second date with a passionate make out or a trip to the bedroom?

This question reveals how she thinks about sex. And steers the conversation to XXX topics.

What should I know about you that I would never think to ask?

Another great personal question. She may reveal something about herself that only her closest friends know.

What’s on your bucket list?

A simple question that reveals a lot about a girl’s perspective on life.

If you knew that in one year you would suddenly die, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?

If she hasn’t thought about her own mortality before, you’re in for a fun convo.

Your house catches fire. Your loved ones and pets are all safe, but you can only run inside to rescue one item. What would that be? Why?

Old photo albums are often at the top of the list. But whatever she answers will be her favorite item in the whole world. Precious info.

#11-20: Playful questions to send your crush

Judge a man by his questions rather than by his answers
— Voltaire

Figuring out what to text to your crush can be frustrating.

If you send her the wrong message, she may blow you off.

But if you send nothing, she may crawl under the sheets with someone else.

If you want to win her over, you MUST send her something.

And you MUST get it right.

How do you know what questions lead to success?

By knowing your way around conversational pitfalls

Most men ask questions for the wrong reasons.

Usually, questions are fired to hold her attention.

How was your day?

How are you?

What are your plans for the weekend?

Meaningless chit-chat.

The biggest issue?

The questions lead to predictable answers.

How was your day?

Fine. You?

How are you?

Good. You?

What are your plans for the weekend?

Going to see friends. You?

One-word answers that lead nowhere.

You want questions that set up a back and forth.

Plus, make her laugh and/or help to get to know her.

Ideally, both.

Here are ten playful questions:

If your phone was broken and it could only play one song, what would you choose?

If you’re mad at someone, do you tell them, or hold a grudge and take it to the grave?

If you could teach every guy on the planet a lesson about women, what would it be?

If you were a man for a day, what would you do?

If I had a booger hanging out of my nose, would you tell me? If so, how?

If Beyoncé walked up to you and asked you out, what would you do?

If you could date any fictional character, who would it be?

If a man could give you the most mind-blowing sex of your life, but constantly moaned “Yep” instead of “Yeah” would you sleep with him?

If your life had a soundtrack, what would it be?

Screams “Uuh-eeh, ooh-ah-ah, ting, tang, walla-walla, bing-bang.”

If you could have a superpower, what would it be?

“Superhuman elasticity. Because then I could yell, ‘Go go Gadget-di$%!’”

#21-33: Questions to get your crush excited

If you want to make a girl wet without touching her, you’re in luck…

Because you’re about to get X questions that turn her her nether regions into Niagara Falls.

An English study asked close roughly 1,000 people to rate 41 body parts on their ability to make them horny.

No matter the gender, sexual orientation, or ethnicity, everyone agreed that the top 5 most erotic zones of the body were:

  1. The genitals.
  2. Mouth/lips.
  3. Nipples
  4. Back of the neck.
  5. Thighs.

But the biggest erogenous zone was not the body…

…But the brain.

If your noggin is thinking about your mother in a bathing suit, it doesn’t matter who is playing with your ding-a-ling.

Because your mind overrides every kind of sexual stimulation.

And it works both ways.

If your brain is super turned on, you can orgasm just by your imagination.

And SHE can orgasm through your words.


If you want to make a girl actually climax through words, visit a hypnotist.

In this tip, we’re focusing on making her excited to meet you, so you can make her climax in person.

But before we continue, keep in mind that you want to work your way up in intensity.

Start sweet and work your way up to dirty.

When in doubt, just follow the order of the questions:

Holy Tip:

It’s impossible for me to know what your relationship is with your crush.

Is it strictly professional?

Does she belong to your circle of friends?

Do you speak to each other several times a week?

Have you ever hugged her hello, or do you simply greet her with “Hi”?

If your relationship is in its infant stage, overly flirty questions and topics will freak her out.

And ultimately scare her away.

I advise you to stay away from X-rated questions if the relationship is too young and fragile.

Focus on building trust and comfort first.

If you went out clubbing and saw your dream guy, how would you seduce him?

If a man was your type, how could he seduce you?

How could a cute guy sweep you off your feet with a kiss?

Have you ever had a one night stand?

What does it mean to you when a man is good in bed?

Have you ever sent someone a naughty photo?

What’s the dirtiest thought you’ve ever had about a stranger?

Are there any positions you’ve never tried, but always wanted to?

Name three places you’d want to do it outside of a home

What’s your go-to porn video?

Have you ever had sex in public?

What’s the weirdest thing that turns you on?

Do you prefer to give or receive oral?

Don’t worry if your crush isn’t ready yet for erotic conversation.

Because the next tip will teach you how to build a deep connection.

And once you got that, you’ll be talking about sex and bodily fluids in no time.

#34-48: Questions to build a deep connection with your crush

You’re in luck, because the following questions will bring you closer to her than her besties.

Closeness is a fuzzy subject.

You probably have friends who you wouldn’t call ‘close’.

Sure, you hang out. But you won’t call them up if you have a problem.

The transition from acquaintance, to friend, to close friend takes a while.

Which is fine.

But you can also put your friendship in the Hyperbolic Time Chamber and walk out as besties.

Where do you start?

With the next questions:

Holy Tip:

Some of these questions ask your crush to be vulnerable.

If she doesn’t know you well, she may not want to open herself up.

To coax an answer out of her, go first.

If you can share your failures, or look like a fool first…

…she’ll most likely follow along.

What’s the darkest type of humor you find hilarious?

What someone is willing to laugh at shows you how serious they are.

“I once asked a pretty homeless lady if I could take her home. She smiled and said yes. But her face quickly changed when I walked off with her cardboard box.”

What’s your most embarrassing hobby?

When she’s hot and LARPs.

When you stick a label on a complete stranger, what do you look at?

Judging others is part of human nature. It’s out of your control.

So it’s fine if I see everyone as an old white man.

What’s the most frightening experience you’ve ever had?

When I got lost in the upside-down.

Do you ever feel self-conscious when walking past a huge crowd of people?

Only always.

What about people do you hate most?

If you had to get a tattoo right now, what would you get?

“9/11 was an inside job.”

What “most likely to” blank would you be most honored to receive?

“Most likely to laugh at the worst moment.”

If you could have been a child genius, what would you want your skill to be?

Resistance to brain freeze. Now I can drink as many slurpees as I want.

What’s your weirdest turn-off?

When a girl falls in love with me. I can’t be with someone who has a bad sense of judgment.

What trivia subject are your best at?

Useless facts. Did you know peanuts are one of the ingredients of dynamite?

What’s your most embarrassing superstition?

I believe I’m special.

What’s your most frequently used emoji?

How do you deal with critique?

“Come at me bro!”

If you could do your college years over, what would you do differently?

Skip college and start TextGod earlier.

What’s a secret you’re still hiding from your parents?

Nothing. I only speak the truth. Which is why I never get invited to family gatherings.

Despite my jokey answers, expect her to answer sincerely.

Which will bring you closer together.

But you want to be careful you don’t enter the friendzone.

Which is why you want to show interest from the start.

Find out how in the next tip.

#49-52: Questions that help find out if your crush likes you

The next set of questions doesn’t only build connection, it helps you discover if she likes you.

Flirting is complex.

Especially if you don’t know if your crush likes you romantically or as a friend.

If playful banter and flirting doesn’t come naturally, you have another option to win her over.

Deep questions.

Instead of reciting prepared lines written by someone else, and looking like a fake…

…You can explore topics that lie beyond the Friendzone and organically fall for each other.

The next few questions help you gauge where she’s at:

  • Already into you.
  • Open to dating you.
  • Not into you. “Quickly, toss him back into the pits of the Friendzone from where he came!”

Do you think a guy and a girl can be friends without catching feelings?

Almost everyone has once fallen in love with a friend who didn’t like them back.

Which leads to intense heartbreak.

So odds are she won’t reply to this question with a simple Yes or No.

She’ll probably go into all the nuances and difficulties that come with a platonic relationship.

In case she answers Yes without explaining, follow up with the next question:

How do two friends keep from falling in love? Have you never fallen for a guy pal?

Ideally, you want to find out what it takes to break out of the friendzone.

Or to prevent from getting there in the first place.

If she gives you any hints on how she’d shift the relationship to romance, you want to use the same techniques on her.

Holy Tip:

If you’ve known your crush a while, the question: “Do you think a guy and a girl can be friends without catching feelings?”

…Hints that you have feelings for her.

And she’ll definitely pick up on it.

So pay attention to her answer.

If she answers that it’s difficult to keep it platonic, you have an opening.

If she says that it’s possible, “Just look at us! We’re besties! Hi, hi.”, you probably don’t have a shot.

Next question for when you’re unsure about whether she likes you:

I’m terrible at reading women. What are the signals you give a guy when you like him?

Her answer will basically be a roadmap to her feelings.

If she likes you, she’ll definitely give you the signals she told you in person.

I remember a girl in high school who told me her language of seduction

And as she went through her flirt indicators, she instantly tried them out on me.

“When I like a guy, I sometimes gently squeeze his forearm.”

*proceeds to squeeze my forearm while making eye contact*

The Holiest of Tips:

If you realize she’s into you, do NOT kill the tension by writing her a love letter, or kissing her!

The tension you feel when you don’t know if someone likes you is THE BEST.

It’s what gives you butterflies in your stomach.

It’s what turns your insides to mush.

It’s what creates the heavenly concoction of pure bliss.

Play it slow.

Give her a tighter hug when you greet her. Stare into her eyes a little longer than usual. Lean in a little too close when you speak. Briefly hold her hand as you walk her across the street.

All these little cues will make her CRAZY for you.

So that once you eventually kiss, she’ll be like putty in your hand.

You’re welcome.

The final question that helps you find out if your crush likes you:

How do you know if you’ve fallen for someone?

If she likes you, this question is her opportunity to spill the beans.

Although she may be direct, it’s more likely she’ll drop hints.

After all, she’s still a lady.

We’ve gone through almost all the essential questions to ask your crush.

But one vital range of questions remains.

#53-72: Questions that make your crush laugh

If you apply the contents of this tip, you and your crush will be laughing your way to the bedroom.

A study shows that the more a man successfully makes a woman laugh, the more likely she’ll be interested in dating.

An even better indicator is if the two are both laughing.

Why does laughter lead to attraction?

Although the verdict is still out, scientists think the reason is simple…

If you can laugh with someone, the future relationship will be filled with positivity.

The hard part is making her laugh.

But no worries.

The next questions will definitely get you a chuckle or two.

Would you rather have your every top be itchy, or be forced to use 1-ply toilet paper?

Would you rather HAVE to announce to everyone when you’re about to fart, or pee?

Would you rather do your business in a giant litterbox IN your house, or go anywhere you want OUTSIDE?

If men came up to you daily, would you rather hear them say “Stop being so sensitive” or “Are you PMSing?”

Would you rather date someone who doesn’t know what a clitoris is, or a dude who yells “IT’S SLIME TIME!” when he climaxes

If you had a Patronus, would you rather it be a bald man with a beer gut, or a Magikarp?

Giving your crush a series of Would you rather questions gets stale…


To make it more exciting, you can play Burning Questions.

Where you ask her a series of questions that she has to answer within 5 seconds.

Otherwise it’s not funny.

Hint: Because it’s over text, you want to make sure she’s ready and available.

If you can’t sleep in the middle of the night, what do you do?

What’s your best beauty tip?

Three words that best describe you?

You’re invited to a dinner party what do you bring?

What’s the worst habit you’ll never break

What’s a fashion trend you don’t understand?

The song that always gets stuck in your head…?

What’s the most rebellious thing you did as a teenager?

Besides your face, what body part do you look at the most in the mirror?

Something no one knows about you…

I wish I wasn’t scared to do…

Craziest place you’ve had sex…

The last lie you told…

If she’s a sport, these questions will lead to hilarious answers.

Plus, get to know her better.

Before we wrap up today’s article, I have one last gift for you.

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…The 10 Texts will help you find an answer and raise attraction.

Enjoy, bro!

Louis Farfields

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