So you want to know how to flirt on Tinder.
But you aren’t sure of the best ways to flirt with her over text.
You’re about to learn how to successfully flirt on Tinder with 15 powerful techniques.
- 1. Send gifs
- 2. Tease with affection
- 3. Suggest she’s into you
- 4. Pretend you’re a couple
- 5. Tell her she’s trouble (in a positive way)
- 6. Be vulnerable
- 7. Ask Daring questions
- 8. Voice what you like about her
- 9. Dismiss her as a love interest
- 10. Playfully set boundaries
- 11. Challenge her
- 12. Use the language of desire
- 13. Reverse the roles
- 14. Misinterpret what she says
- 15. The text she can’t resist
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Applying these tips will instantly make you the guy she loves texting.
1. Send gifs
You’ll make her addicted to you when you start sending the right GIFS.
Texting has tons of advantages.
But its weakness is that it lacks sensation.
There’s no taste, smell, sound, or touch.
(Unless you’re writing in braille huehuehue).
The more senses you can activate, the easier to seduce someone.
That’s where GIFs come in.
Even though a GIF is a few seconds of soundless video on repeat…
…it has a couple priceless elements:
- Facial expressions
- Body language
- Cute animals
- Delicious food
A well-placed gif specific to your situation can be the difference between her replying enthusiastically with you or getting left on seen.
2. Tease with affection
Most guys have incredibly boring conversations. And you’re about to get the easiest technique to fix this.
But… a beginner flirt will often accidentally insult when teasing.
That only pushes her away.
If you want to tease her in a way that pulls her toward you, do this:
Be affectionate with your teases.
That way you can joke around without offending her.
Suppose she says something silly or has something slightly embarrassing in her profile photos.
Here’s an example where a TextGod mentee goes affectionate first and teases after.
Sometimes it can be that easy. If your teases never land, make sure the girl is interested in talking to you in the first place.
3. Suggest she’s into you
Sometimes a girl will accidentally set you up for the perfect flirt. Here’s how to capitalize like a pro.
Suppose she texts you first thing in the morning with one of these classics:
While all she probably meant was to be friendly and greet you, you can make it seem like she’s really into you.
Even if she doesn’t feel that way, it’s always best if you assume she likes you.
In case she rejects your playful suggestion, just playfully hold your ground and then switch the subject to something else.
4. Pretend you’re a couple
Do this right and she won’t be able to get enough of you.
Act out that you’re a couple.
The whole point of this roleplay is that it’s premature. That’s what makes it charming. You’ve never been on a date with her and yet you’re acting like you’re wildly intimate.
Plus, if you go with the next text, you’re suggesting she’s at fault.
Although it’s only roleplay, it may soon be reality.
Then you can ask her out using line 8 from the 10 texts that always work.
Get it for free here and give it a try.
5. Tell her she’s trouble (in a positive way)
As long as it doesn’t have crazy consequences, we all like the idea of getting into trouble. Girls included.
So give her the opportunity.
Here are 3 example texts:
And using your voice (in a voicenote) is always extra powerful.
6. Be vulnerable
This tip will make sure she sees you as the quality guy she has been looking for.
Women often complain that men on Tinder are dull.
You might feel the same way! Aren’t most Tinder convos a tad repetitive?
You can be the one to stand out! The breath of fresh hair in a room that stinks of shallowness.
Well, there are many ways. But one that’s easier for you to try is by showing vulnerability.
Now before you share your life’s worst moments with your new match… wait a second.
Just give someone a sneak peek into your private space.
What are you up to? What do you care about? What do you think about? What’s happening in your house right NOW?
Almost everyone on Tinder is incredibly guarded. Be a little more vulnerable and women will love you for it.
Here’s an example of one of our TextGod Mentees using this principle in action.
7. Ask Daring questions
Are you guilty of asking the same questions that every other guy does?
If you’ve ever asked one of these:
…Then you’re getting thrown in tinder jail for having boring conversations.
Some modern doctors actually prescribe these lines to people with sleeping problems.
Why are they boring?
They don’t make her feel anything.
She gets these messages all the time.
All they do is tell her that you’re more of the same.
Devoid of personality.
Instead, ask questions that are more thought provoking or unique.
Or go over-the-top with this question:
Or something spicy:
(Careful, this last question is for when you’ve gotten to know her better)
The point is, if you’re going to flirt using questions, they need to be a little crazy, interesting, unique, or over-the-top. Stand out. She’ll love you for it.
For more great questions to ask, check out our article below.
8. Voice what you like about her
This mistake is made by almost every man, and will almost always turn her off.
It’s what Peasant Paul and Mediocre Marc do.
Complimenting her looks.
If you think about it for a second, a compliment on her looks is skin-deep. She hasn’t worked to get it. She was just born with it. Or maybe it’s Maybelline.
Unoriginal jokes aside, women prefer to receive compliments on subjects that they take great pride in.
So compliment her actions, personality, or something she had to work for.
9. Dismiss her as a love interest
Here’s a scientifically proven way to flirt with your crush.
And it works for a simple scientific reason.
Playfulness is another form of humor, and humor, according to a study performed by evolutionary psychology, is the best way to flirt.
10. Playfully set boundaries
Here’s the only correct way to handle her leaving you on read.
Most guys do one of two things (or both).
- They get upset
- They act like a pushover
Neither is attractive.
But there’s a silver lining to all this.
If you don’t act butthurt and say something playful to set a boundary instead, she’ll likely respect you for it.
Or you don’t like that she flaked on your date:
11. Challenge her
If this is the ONLY tip you take away from this article, it will drastically improve your online dating life.
Most guys are way too safe in their conversations.
And by safe, I mean she gets so bored she’d rather squeeze lemon juice into her eyes than read one more word.
A fun, flirty way to ramp up your conversations, is by challenging her.
12. Use the language of desire
Her attraction for you will increase by 69% when you use spicier language.
She doesn’t want you to see her as ‘nice’. She wants to feel sexy, incredible, great, and amazing.
Can you blame her? So let her feel desired!
IMPORTANT: Don’t overdo this, or you’ll seem desperate and creepy. A little goes a long way.
13. Reverse the roles
Here’s how you go from being the one chasing to the one being chased..
Most guys flirt with her, hit on her, and pursue her at every point in the conversation
This can be exciting for a girl if she already likes you.
But when your interest isn’t deserved, it’s a big turnoff.
And you’ll end up getting some form of this text:
Now I personally have never been friend zoned in the last 100 years. But people tell me it’s painful. So let’s make sure you avoid the friend zone as well.
Shake things up a little and act like she’s the one hitting on you.
Reverse the roles.
Want to go a little more over the top?
Go with this text if you’re more of a classy gal.
14. Misinterpret what she says
Here’s how you flirt like a pro by teasing and sexualizing at the same time.
Learn from this TextGod mentee:
He makes an innocent comment about one of the dogs in her photo.
And then ramps up the spice level when she mentions that her dog is “too small for the job.”
Now, these situations aren’t going to happen all the time.
But they are way more common than you think. You just need to pay attention and look for opportunities to misread what she’s saying.
We take innocent bodybuilding slang of “cake” a.k.a. ass.
And use it in the classic quote of letting people eat cake.
A.k.a. eating bunghole.
True romance at it’s finest.
And with her response, you can tell that she loves me for it.
So try it for yourself to see how much more the girl likes you when you playfully misinterpret her texts.
15. The text she can’t resist
There is one thing that almost no woman can resist.
Throw out this bad boy and then lure her into a flirty and fun conversation that’ll make her excited to see you.
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