You have the number of your crush and you’re texting back and forth a little.
But you’re not really sure how to win her over.
In this article, you’ll find out exactly how to text your crush to make her fall for you.
- 1. Tease with love
- 2. Ask good questions
- 3. Send her voice notes
- 4. Leave her wanting more
- 5. Use ‘we’ and ‘us’
- 6. Be a little less polite
- 7. Have standards
- 8. Dial down the laughter
- 9. Show interest
- 10. Have a life
- 11. Reveal your sensitive side
- 12. Outshine the competition
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1. Tease with love
Do you find it difficult to just be yourself when you’re texting your crush?
Then you probably analyze every text you send. Because what if she doesn’t like your texts? Or what if you seem needy?
So you play it safe.
There’s just one problem.
Playing it safe is actually more dangerous. At least, for your love life.
Being friendly, polite, and accommodating doesn’t create romantic feelings. It creates friendship.
That’s why you need to take a risk.
You need to flirt.
One of the best and easiest ways to flirt is to tease.
IMPORTANT: Teasing doesn’t mean mocking or insulting someone.
Teasing is all about playfully pushing someone away.
Here are some lines you can use right now.
- If she uses a bad word. “Watch it, potty mouth! My mom reads all my Tinder conversations!”
- “O no. And I was just starting to like you a little. Where’s the unmatch button?
- “Could you please stop being cute and distracting me, I’m supposed to be working right now.”
For more, read my next article:
2. Ask good questions
A lot of conversations die out because of one simple reason.
If talking with you doesn’t make her feel good, she has zero reason to keep talking with you.
But when you’re her favorite source of entertainment, she can’t get enough of you.
A simple way to be a source of fun is by asking good questions.
Here are a few you can send your crush right now.
If you read them all, I’m sure you wanted to answer at least one yourself. They’re fun!
Just don’t over-use them.
Because no matter how good the question is, the most important factor for a good conversation is variety.
3. Send her voice notes
Have you ever called a help desk of a company and got a woman on the phone with a sexy voice?
It’s kinda incredible. Even though you can’t see her, you still feel a little attracted to her.
That’s some seduction magic right there.
And you can use it to.
Because just like you, women find men’s voices sexy too! Including your crush.
So send her voice messages!
If you use your voice well, she’ll ignore all the other dudes in her inbox and focus her attention on you.
Just look at some of the responses I got after sending a voice message:
My voice is sexy.
My voice is cute… uhh… sexy.
My accent is super hot.
Now, you may get the idea I’m bragging about my deep, masculine voice that makes the ladies weak in the knees.
My voice is pretty average, bro.
Which you can find out if you check out my video on the 13 texting rules for men:
4. Leave her wanting more
Every man has once wished for a love potion.
A special bubbling elixir that’ll make your crush fall madly in love with you after only one sip.
Sadly, I don’t have that potion. But I do have the next best thing.
The brain’s g-spot.
Given the right stimulus, that brain shoots deliciously addictive chemicals into your body.
Get her to trip on brain juice and she’ll be hooked on your texts.
Just like the girl who my colleague coach Jay is texting with.
The million-dollar question is of course: how do you stimulate the g-spot in the brain of your crush?
Several studies have shown that unexpected rewards trigger far more feel-good chemicals than expected rewards.
In normal words:
Give her enough interest and affection so that she’s always wanting more.
How do you do that?
Vary the next things:
- How quickly you answer.
- How much you reply.
- How many questions you ask her.
- How much you answer of her questions.
- The type of texts you send her (texts, photos, memes, voice notes).
- The flavor of your texts (funny, casual, interesting, teasing, etc.)
Most of this happens naturally when you’re not over-analyzing your texts and are just living a fun life.
5. Use ‘we’ and ‘us’
It seems like a small detail, but it makes all the difference.
The word ‘we’ is the GOAT at building a connection. It instantly transforms you from two strangers on the internet to people with a special bond.
‘We’ shows that you’re a team.
And that’s paramount for building trust and, if that’s your interest, a romantic relationship.
- “Man I miss the sun. Let’s go. We‘re going to steal a boat and sail to the tropics.”
- “I”m such a sucker for dogs. When we get our pupper I’m going to call him Taco.”
- “Our dog is going to clean up his own poop because we raised him so well.”
6. Be a little less polite
Let’s begin with the issue most men suffer from.
Chatting is fun, but it doesn’t get her to think naughty thoughts about you. And that’s exactly what you want, right?
Do you know who women fantasize about?
Men who are dangerous.
I didn’t pull that fact out of my ass. That fact is supported by a superbly written book of non-fiction, called A Billion Wicked Thoughts.
A book written by two researchers who have analyzed 1 billion Google searches to discover what type of pornography arouses women the most.
What was the conclusion of that book?
That the most prevalent sexual fantasy of women follows the formula of 50 Shades of Grey.
I can already hear you thinking, “That’s such a ridiculously stupid book…”
But it’s also the best-selling novel of all time. Hold that in your brain for a second.
Why does 50 Shades of Grey get women all hot and bothered? Because it fits the female sexual fantasy to a tee.
- A wild man/monster who doesn’t care much about the needs of others (a boxer, sheriff, private eye, vampire, werewolf).
- Who is of high status (a billionaire, doctor, boss, prince, knight, king).
- Who is only sweet for one special lady who eventually makes him a ‘better’ man.
So if you want to seduce your crush, be a little more wild and mature.
If you do it right, you’ll get replies like this:
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7. Have standards
The biggest turn-off for a woman is when she feels that she can have you with a single snap of her fingers.
The only exception is when she’s already super into you.
That’s why you want to throw her a little off balance every now and then.
Excitement lies in what could be.
None of this means that you have to hide that you find her attractive.
She definitely should know you find her sexy.
But she should also know that her sexy bod isn’t enough to win you over.
There’s something else you’re looking for.
What that is, is up to you.
At the very least you need to show her that she needs to put in effort to keep you around.
8. Dial down the laughter
If you’re too sweet, you actually lose attraction.
You’re too happy. And on your way to becoming a psycho.
Only Disney characters are happy 24/7.
Are you always smiling and laughing with your crush?
Then you’ll lose her trust.
She’ll think you’re hiding something and are only putting your best self forward to win her over.
This is not an excuse to bitch and moan to your crush.
But it is a warning to be more disagreeable.
Just because she loves horses doesn’t mean you need to too.
In fact, you’ll become more attractive if you disagree.
As you can see from this screenshot from my buddy:
And this screenshot from me:
Sprinkle in a teensy negative comment between all the positive ones.
Your crush will love it.
9. Show interest
It seems so obvious, but so many people forget to do it.
Showing interest and excitement so that your crush knows you’re having a good time.
Nothing is more flattering than someone who’s genuinely interested in us.
Did your crush just say or do something you like? Let them know with your warm and positive energy.
- “Hahaha. It’s been a while that a text made me laugh that hard.”
- “You like [ABC] too? Marry me already!”
- “It’s cool that you like videogames and all. But I’m totally going to kick your ass at them.”
10. Have a life
Women want a man with a balanced life, so that she can co-star in your awesome reality.
The last thing girls want is to be your everything (despite all the lovesongs).
*looks at Ariana Grande and every other R&B/soul musician*
Want to be sexy to your crush?
Have cool stuff to talk to her about.
Have cool friends. Keep going out to parties and events. And work on your hobbies.
11. Reveal your sensitive side
When it comes to being good with women, most men have it all wrong.
They tend to think that women fall for guys who are strong and in perfect control over their emotions.
But that’s wildly inaccurate.
While many women do want a ‘rock’ to rely on, women also want to feel a strong sense of connection to you.
They want to feel fireworks.
And that can only come from being vulnerable with her and showing who you really are.
So open yourself up to her a little.
Here are some questions that will give you an idea of what she might want to hear:
- What do you care about?
- What’s something you think about a lot?
- What energizes you?
- What’s the most important thing that’s happening in your life?
12. Outshine the competition
If she’s single, she’s available.
And if you want to be the one filling that special role in her life, you better outperform the competition.
That’s why I’m giving away my 10 best texts that I’ve used to get women to go crazy over me.
If you’re ever at a loss for what to say, just copy paste one of my lines and you’ll be one step closer to winning her heart.
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