You thought you had something special going on. But then your crush or match ghosted you.
Ouch.
Luckily for you, I’ve got the 47 best ghosting responses that will rekindle their interest.
- What exactly is ghosting?
- Why do people ghost?
- How do you prevent being ghosted?
- Responses to someone you’ve never met
- Funny ghosting responses
- High-Value ghosting responses
- Responses if they ghost on a date request
- Responses to someone you’ve dated
- What to do if you don’t get a response
- The one text she can’t ignore
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After this article, you’ll know what ghosting is and what types of ghosting there are. And whatever situation you are in, you’ll have copy-paste lines to get your girl interested again.
Guaranteed.
But first…
What exactly is ghosting?
Ghosting is when the person you’re in contact with no longer responds to your texts or phonecalls. An important distinction: someone not replying to your last text isn’t ghosting. After all, they may have just forgotten to text back. You’re being ghosted when someone consistently ignores all forms of contact you send their way. In other words: you don’t know if you’re being ghosted until you’ve tried to get in touch with them on multiple occasions.
Why do people ghost?
If you’ve ever been ghosted, it’s usually one of the reasons below:
- You went too fast
- They’re not emotionally mature enough to say they want to end things
- They’re just not interested
- They’ve met someone else and they don’t want to reject and hurt you
- They’re going through some troubling or intense times that demand their full attention
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How do you prevent being ghosted?
Everyone can get ghosted. But the stronger of a connection she feels with you, the less likely she’ll pull back and disappear. If she really likes you, she’ll at least keep in touch.
How do you get her to really like you?
By becoming someone fun and exciting with great communication skills.
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Book a call with one of our coaches for more information.
What you shouldn’t text
If you ever want a second chance with someone, avoid sending texts that make them feel like they dodged a bullet.
Look, nobody likes being rejected. It sucks when someone cool doesn’t like you back. That can make you question your whole identity.
But the WORST thing you can do when you’re getting ghosted, is to act needy, upset, or passive aggressive over text.
This justifies the person ghosting you.
Here are some clear examples of what not to text or say when she ghosts you:
Or anything like this.
Or this.
Yikes.
Here’s a quote from the biggest pimp of all time, Ghandi, dropping some mad-value bombs:
Facts!
Responses to someone you’ve never met
This is the best mindset to have when someone from a dating app ghosts you.
Treat it like no big deal.
And it shouldn’t be a big deal. You don’t know enough about this person and they don’t know enough about you. After all, you’ve only exchanged a few, if any, messages.
At this point, they’re not really morally obligated to say why they aren’t responding.
So respond to the whole situation by being fun and playful.
Here’s a video of mine where I cover exactly that so you can be fun and playful too.
And if you have no time to watch a short clip, just steal one of my next responses. Served to you fresh in the next tip!
Funny ghosting responses
Get her laughing AND get her to respond with the same text.
Even though she didn’t respond to your last message, it’s important to keep it fun and lighthearted. Especially when you’ve never met.
Why?
Positive emotions are what ultimately get someone to want to text you back or meet up. By staying playful, she recognizes you’re happy without her validation.
That’s sexy.
So send your ghost one of these if you want them to text you back with a huge smile on their face.
(Only if you know she’s seen HIMYM before)
(Dink is such a funny word hehe)
If she didn’t laugh at that last one she may have the personality of a wet mop. In which case move on to a lucky lady who knows how to giggle.
But if being funny isn’t your thing (or hers), you can send something more sincere and high-value.
High-Value ghosting responses
Use these next set of responses if you want her to respect you.
A great option for when you’ve been too playful and clowny.
But a less-than-perfect option when she already sees you as the intense and serious type.
Depending on how gravely you messed up, she’ll appreciate these warmer responses.
And will then be more likely to reply or dish out her number.
Alternatively, check out my 10 texts that always work.
And I mean it, they ALWAYS work.
Important: I know you're sometimes unsure what to text. So I've put together 10 Texts That Always Work. Copy-paste lines that instantly attract her and make her crave your attention. They work and they are free. Just a small gift to get you started. Enjoy! Click here to get them.
Responses if they ghost when you ask for their number
Use these next texts if she’s disappeared when you’ve asked for her digits.
You’ve made her laugh, cry (from laughter), and she’s become addicted to your conversation, so now it’s time to move off the app and onto text.
So you ask for her number.
And suddenly she’s been in the shower for 4 days, ignoring you.
But there are a few lines to get this back on track.
Responses if they ghost on a date request
If she went silent when you asked her out, send these texts to get her back on track.
The conversation had sparks flying and she agreed to a date. Awesome!
But when you ask her out, there’s no response.
Here’s how to handle that.
Boom. If she got back to you, you probably have a date set up.
For tips on how to have an awesome first date, check out the article below.
Responses to someone you’ve dated
This is something you MUST understand if you want her to get back in touch with you:
You always have to handle things with a certain egress of maturity.
But before you reach out, ask yourself whether or not you even like this person. Because someone who ghosts you after you’ve spent quality time together is a huge B.
(B for butthead.)
Unless they have a very valid excuse.
So you have to communicate that they’ve crossed a line while still being warm and without sounding like you’re butthurt.
What to do if you don’t get a response
If someone’s made the choice to ghost you, a text is rarely enough to grab their attention again.
That’s why the best things to do when you get ghosted are:
- Being thankful they left. Now you know they’re not right for you
- Moving on
You deserve someone who treats you like a king (or queen).
So think of it as a bullet dodged.
And move onto the next girl.
So check out our articles below on how to have epic dates with your new crush.
- 17 Proven Tips & Ideas To A Perfect Bumble Date
- What Is A Tinder Date: 20 Tips For A Great Time
- Text After First Date: 10 Examples To Secure A Second Date
- 9 Video Call Date Ideas For a Romantic Quarantine
The one text she can’t ignore
Send this new girl a message she can’t ignore. With a 0% ghosting rate.
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