Whatever the reason, you want to reconnect with someone from your past.
Maybe it’s someone you only had a one-night stand with.
Perhaps it’s a person you actually have a bit of a crush on.
Whatever your deal, you’re in the right place.
Because you’re about to get 3 examples to text an old hookup or flame.
- The best way to reach out to an ‘ex’ no matter how long it’s been since you spoke
- A 60-second phone script that will have her thinking of you
- 3+ Scenarios where you should NEVER reach out to a crush from the past
- 12+ Texts to increase your attraction and make her want to see you
- 4 Ways to make her chase you (steal my lines!)
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By the end of today’s article, you’ll be able to successfully reconnect with a cutie from your past.
Don’t even think about reconnecting until you read this
Since my crystal ball is in the garage for repairs, I can’t see what you’re up to.
So I don’t know the exact circumstances that you stopped seeing your old flame or hook up.
Maybe someone broke it off. Perhaps one of you moved away. Or our TextGod advice got you so many options that you got distracted and this person fell through the cracks.
But one scenario is more important than the others.
If the ‘relationship’ was ended on purpose, you need to reconsider the reasons for breaking up. (If you stopped seeing each other for different reasons, move onto the next tip.)
Did you stop seeing each other because you had some kind of issues? Issues of non-compatibility, stress, family matters, and so on?
Then it’s not smart to reconnect UNLESS you know the issues from the past have been resolved.
Which goes beyond just you being ready to start fresh. You BOTH need to be ready.
That’s why I need you to answer two questions:
- Do you feel confident that past issues have been fixed?
- What’s changed that makes you feel it’s okay to see each other again?
If you’ve got proof that things will be different this time around, go for it.
As long as you don’t ‘go for it’ like this..
Hitting up your old hookup, the dumb way
Texting your old crush after 5 Jäger bombs is a great way to make a fool of yourself.
Sure, “I miss you” and “Why don’t you come over tonight, you’re the only one for me” may sound great at the time…
…but will only scare your crush away forever.
“Wow, how insightful, Louis. Thanks! #sarcasm.”
I know. Drunk texting is obviously bad.
So let me give you another equally dumb scenario that will likely backfire:
Texting when you’re lonely and crave intimacy from someone… anyone.
If you’re feeling alone and empty, your emotions will likely radiate from your texts.
Making you seem needy and desperate.
Not a good look.
If you’re in an emotional low, hooking up with someone else is not going to turn your life around.
Sure it may feel good at the time, but if you’re not feeling well, the loneliness will come flooding back shortly after.
Create a game plan and live your life.
Hang out with friends or family, read a good book, meditate, hit the gym, or work on a passion project.
Do things that enrich your life.
Feeling better about yourself? Then it’s time to text someone you used to see back in the day.
Find out how in the next tip.
#1: Reconnecting with an old hookup the SMART way
You’re about to get…
…the best way to reach out to an ‘ex’, old flame, or someone you used to hook up with, no matter how long it’s been since you last spoke.
It’s a little bold, but it works wonders.
Here it comes:
Give her a call when you’re somewhere that reminds you of a good time the two of you had together.
“A phonecall?? Pfff… I’m not sure if I have the guts for that.”
It’ll only be a brief call. And I’m about to tell you EXACTLY what to say.
Here’s how you start.
The second your ‘ex’ picks up the phone, you go:
“Hey, so good to hear your voice. I’ll only be a minute because I have to go soon, but I’m with friends in that park where we hung out and fed goats. It reminded me of you and that memory instantly brought a smile to my face. ”
Let’s dissect that.
Looking at your phone and seeing an old flame calling you leads to a bunch of reactions.
Some better than others.
In the worst case, the reaction will be fear. Fear of drama.
That’s why you want to show you’re not bringing any.
In comes the time constraint.
One of the first things you say is, “I’ll only be a minute because I have to go soon.”
Plus, you’re giving NOTHING but positivity:
- So good to hear your voice
- I’m with friends in a park (could be some other place)
- That memory of you brought a smile to my face
From here on, you ask, “How’ve you been?”
Whatever she says back, you go, “Cool. I’m sure there are so many amazing things happening in your life. Maybe you can tell me about it soon.”
More positive vibes AND you left the door open so she can reach out to you.
From here you wrap things up:
“Anyway, I have to go. I hope you’re great. Have an amazing day.”
After you’ve given so many good vibes, how can she NOT want to see you again?
For some of you this phone call may be a little too daring.
And you want something easier to start with.
We’ll get to that in a moment.
But I do have something you can use right now:
The 10 Texts That Always Work.
This technique is a great way to connect with someone you used to be intimate with.
But as you saw, it doesn’t get you a date yet.
You’ll get that in the next tip.
#2: The best way to get a date after reconnecting
After you’ve shown her you’re still alive and doing well, it’s time to go for the date.
How do you do that?
With the next 5 tips that I give away in the next video.
#3: EASY text to get an old hookup to reply
Here comes a DEAD easy text to rekindle an old relationship.
A text that I’ve used plenty of times with great success.
(Some girls have even used it on me.)
Here it comes.
The power of clickbait makes this text irresistible to women of your past.
She doesn’t know what it’s about!
What has she been up to in your perverted little mind?!
She MUST know.
What do you say after she sends you the unavoidable:
[W]What was it about?[/W]
Don’t go super sexual.
You don’t want to give into temptation and show her you’re a horndog. That’s what most men would do.
Instead, you want to show you’re in control of your beastial impulses and crack a flirty joke.
Preferably something that ties into an experience you shared. Or at least matches her sense of humor.
If she’s an old hookup who has no reason to be upset with you, go:
A nice self-deprecating joke that also sets the tone for something naughty. But isn’t super sexual.
When using the above line, don’t blindly copy the part about Cosmo.
Because what if she never reads Cosmo?
It shows her you don’t really know her very well after all.
And you’re confirming she was right for ‘breaking up’ with you.
So personalize the message!
If she doesn’t read Cosmo, change it into another magazine she does enjoy.
Or edit the line even more and have her watching her favorite film.
Onto the next tip on what to text an old crush.
#4: Make her want to see you by having the right mindset
Most people who want to revive an old ‘relationship’ with a crush or bed partner mess up the attempt.
Let’s make sure you succeed by telling you what these people do wrong.
What’s the big bad blunder?
Putting all their focus on that person from the past.
Spending all your time focusing and ruminating on that someone halts progress in every other part of your life that makes you attractive.
So the vibe you give off is likely not good.
You’re probably coming across as needy.
Do you think your ‘ex’ is looking to hook up with someone who’s needy and desperate?
So even if you are going to reconnect with a sex buddy from the past, make sure you’re not overthinking it.
The person you want to see may not even be the best person to have in your life right now.
Maybe you haven’t even met him or her yet.
So don’t nurture a needy mindset where you NEED the person you’re thinking of.
Maintain and improve the important aspects of your life outside of this one girl.
- Your friends
- Your family
- Your career
- Your passions
- Your hobbies
- Your experiences
All these things you do to be happy and move your life forward is what makes you attractive AND what gets your old flame to be interested in seeing you again.
The path to getting the woman you want is influenced MOST by the stuff you do when you’re not with her.
Life is too short to waste your time obsessing over someone.
Get out and do what makes you happy first. The girls will come next.
CALL TO ACTION: Before you send the first text to the person you’re thinking of, I have something to GREATLY improve the odds of seeing her. Write down all the things that you’re excited for and are giving your life meaning.
What will this do?
It’ll remind you of how much there is in your life that has nothing to do with the old hookup you want to see. And bring out all kinds of positivity that’ll pull that special someone to you.
#5: How to make her reach out to you “text”
The technique I’m about to give you isn’t a text.
It’s far better.
Because this method is even LESS effort than a text.
A text message says, “I’m thinking about you.”
Which isn’t bad. In fact, it’s very flattering.
But it may not be what you want to communicate if you weren’t particularly close to the person you’re thinking of.
If you’ve only hooked up once or twice on a holiday, but actually know little else about her, a more chill approach may be better.
Like following her on Instagram.
“Really, Louis? THAT is your method to make her reach out to you?”
Be patient, my friend. The Insta follow is only part of the plan.
The bigger part of the plan is having an AWESOME Instagram.
Relax, you don’t need to be super hot, go on lavish holidays, or even have an expensive camera.
You just need to communicate that you’re someone who she’d like to hang out with.
And if she’s already jumped into bed with you, that’s not very difficult to express.
Want more tips on how to build an Instagram that gets girls?
With the profile out of the way, here’s what you do:
- Follow her
- Engage her profile by leaving likes or comments
- Create short but fun stories
Because you already share a fun past, it’s VERY likely she’ll slide into your DMs.
But make no mistake.
Just because you’re texting doesn’t mean you’ll see her again.
That’s why you want to make her want to chase you.
Find out how to do that in the next tip.
#6: She needs to feel like she’s WINNING you over
Let’s make this tip short and sweet.
People value what they earn.
If you’re reaching out to your old hookup and trying to convince them to hang out with you, you’re not very valuable.
In fact, you’re easy to come by. Cheap.
Even if she’s single and looking for love, she may not like you offering yourself to her on a silver platter.
Well, if she’s an awesome individual, she has the hunter mindset and wants to earn someone special.
Just think of a hunter who stalked a prize deer in the mountains for hours and finally shot it from afar.
Would that hunter get the same satisfaction if the deer galloped up to him and pressed its head against the barrel of his 12-gauge?
Your old crush or booty call needs to BUY you, you can’t sell yourself to her.
So what do you do?
After you reach out to her, don’t give away everything for free.
If she asks you a question, be coy. Perhaps answer:
If she says something silly, go:
(Which is great if you’re on WhatsApp or iMessage.)
Being a challenge doesn’t mean you have to put up hoops for her to jump through.
You can also do it more naturally and turn down the first date idea:
Or switching up the plans:
Show her you’re someone she has to earn and she’ll love chasing you. And you’ll be together in no time.
Bruh, I just gave you over a dozen texts to send to your old crush. And I’m going to give you one more.
In fact, I’m going to give you the best.
It’s so good that NASA sent it into outer space so it’s the first thing to reach extraterrestrial life. (Don’t Google that.)
It’s my Clickbait Opener. And it’s THE text that has gotten more responses than any other line I’ve ever created.
You can grab it down below, plus 2 follow-up lines and a video of me showing it in action.
Just hit the golden button at the bottom.
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